Author	Thread: Women don't like.....
Admin	Women don't like..... Posted : 1 Jan, 2014 10:24 AM I been on this site for quite a while, and tried to communicate with many women. I try to be honest about who I am, but many ladies on here don't want any part of me. Some things I found women don't like are guys that are short, like me. I guess its a security thing, and those men that have money and looks. I been a Christian for a long time, and love and serve the Lord. I never tell you I am a good man, because none of us are truly good. I have disabilities like blindness, and deafness, which are two other things women don't like. I also have a cleft lip, if you see my picture you can see. People tell me I am an inspiration and a living testimony of what God can do in someone with an imitation, but when it comes to a relationship women seem to think," he has a great story, but please i would not marry a guy like that, noway." I guess I am such a great story that I am not worth being with. people used to tell me that God has someone special for me. I have faith, but I have to say as I get older I begin to doubt. Sorry for venting on here, but I have less friends to talk about this because many of my friends are married and don't want to hear it from me. I have one friend who used to go on and on about his struggles with women, once he met someone and got married he pretty much told me he did not want to hear my concerns. I won't post any of this on FB because its not for personal use and people don't want to see it. I am sure many here don't want to see my post or care to pray. So often we seek help and no one wants to be there for you. I always try to listen and pray with those in need. When I ask for prayer for a mate I get the look like, "Really." I want a chance and prayer. I don't expect a ground swell of support because I have not seen much here and like others on this site I am looking for someone, but most women here don't seem to give me a chance. I hope everyone had a Merry Christmas and a happy and blessed new year. J G Post Reply
View Profile History	Women don't like..... Posted : 1 Jan, 2014 01:57 PM I'm sorry my friend, this is such a sensitive issue. In general most people want what they would consider the whole package in a mate. In reality we all have faults. And even those who think they found a good mate, half end up divorced and those who stay together are often unhappy. It is because of the less easily seen faults, that are more easily overlooked, that allow people to fall in love more easily. But in time these faults can become unbearable when faced with the selfish expectations that so many of us have. In a sense, as Paul has said, it is a better thing to remain single. You can devote more time to serving God. But God also said it is not good for man to be alone. So He created women. But that was before the fall of man. Once we fell, selfish desire became part of our make up. So often I see people desiring to have more than they are able to give in return. It's a sad state for mankind. I could go on and on but I do have an answer to the dilemma. The first step is seeking first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness. You put yourself in a position to be used by God. And when you are successfully walking in the Spirit of the Lord, you gain His FAVOR. In this position, your life WILL change. Search out scriptures about walking in God's Spirit and power. Search out scripture on God's grace and His favor. There are many good scriptures in Psalms And Proverbs that pertain to favor. Be prepared for God to change your life, in Jesus name. Amen Post Reply
deafie^ View Profile History	Women don't like..... Posted : 1 Jan, 2014 10:21 PM Yeah I know the feeling, it sucks big time. Nice advice there, God is first before the woman. Walking in the light. It not just men missing out, woman missing out as well. It works both ways, how often an undesirable woman misses out? In choosing a life-long partner we both need to be suitable and attractive to one another and that we can provide help to one another. Its pretty hard to get your focus of looking for a partner, but just have faith and trust in God. Have fun there, even its 1000 rejects, just try to choose one that is most likely and suitable to one another. Be content and relax in God, God knows what is happening and is with you all the way. Cheers Richard Post Reply
View Profile History	Women don't like..... Posted : 3 Jan, 2014 09:25 PM Good points and thanks. The thought of being attractive seems to come up. We all have the idea person in our mind and we expect that person to be the one in the movies or in a picture. We all do this, I found that women seem to do this as much as us men. I never thought I was unattractive, but for my limitations and height. I ran across a profile on here where a young lady claimed she like guys that were tall, skinny with muscles. I thought that is kinda shallow, but she was honest. I wonder in a respectful manner how many women on here think that way? This does not mean the ideas come in a conscience way, but in a sub-conscience fashion. Our mind saying one thing, but our heart and soul claiming something else. I have to apply this to myself as well. God bless. J G Post Reply
View Profile History	Women don't like..... Posted : 7 Jan, 2014 11:46 AM Just because your an inspiration does not mean that someone will love you. Post Reply
View Profile History	Women don't like..... Posted : 9 Jan, 2014 05:12 PM I am so sorry about how you are feeling right now. But it is true, there is someone out there for you. It does not matter how you think you look. Remember, when our almighty God blesses you with the perfect lady. it will be forever. when the lord brings things and people together,nothing or no one can break it, no even satan. I'm going to tell you about my niece, who had the same trouble, for many years. she being the oldest of 3 daughters. Her younger sisters married and she would cry and cry, saying why lord haven't i found someone? You see my niece is handicapped, she is also partially blind and has a very asthma and can walk well do to a bad leg, which she walks with a limp and it takes her time to get to places. It broke my heart. I would comfort her the best way I could. and would pray with her for the lord to bless her. and this summer she finally met someone, and he is perfect for her. my niece is 30 years old, and the lord had to bring a man who was going to treat her right and with respect. He is her same age and he has a beautiful spirit about him, you can see he doesn't have wrong intentions.He is the son of our Pastor who he himself was experiencing the same loneliness. it is true, many women and men alike have those dislikes. and it is true, the height thing has to do with security. but remember women do come in all shapes and sizes. The lord is making you yours, she just not might be ready yet. So smile, Jesus Loves you. and the power of prayer is good. I myself have problems finding someone. we are all looking for that someone to except us and they way the Lord intended. Be Blessed My friend:glow: Post Reply
View Profile History	Women don't like..... Posted : 20 Feb, 2014 04:11 PM JG...and all on the thread...if I may, One of the things I have learned while on this site is people who are "shopping" are really just looking for an emotional fix. I mean...if an angel spoke to us as Mary was spoken to...if God sent out a servant to fetch us on direct order of Him...would any of us be interested in how tall someone was or meticulous about the details? I can honestly say no for myself. If I knew 100% that this man coming for me was endorsed by God...I would be head over heels with Gods choice.....BECAUSE ITS GODS CHOICE! YOU CANT GET ANY BETTER THAN THAT! RIGHT? But becuz many of us dont know how to go about finding that one special guy or gal. We create a list of what we "THINK" would be a right match. But isnt it better to ask God? I mean most of us are here becuz we want a close connection even before meeting. We want to be acquainted with the heart intention of the person as well as the intial attraction. And our past experiences werent so great! . But what if we left ALL that up to God? I mean...he knows! I challenge all of us to pray before considering or excluding so we may all benefit from God's choice...which is the ultimate! Thank you JG for your post! I am challenged to look closer into the motives of my own heart and will submit even my preferences to God becuz (heavenly father) knows best! Blessings and keep the faith! Post Reply