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ShesBlessed
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I get more "views" than I do actual "messages"Posted : 20 Mar, 2011 05:19 PMI am so perplexed. I will log in and have 100+ views but only one or two messages (insert unhappy smiley here however there isn't one) |
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I get more "views" than I do actual "messages"Posted : 21 Mar, 2011 03:37 AMI think you have a lovely profile, and as your sister in Christ, my suggestion is, don't change anything. |
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I get more "views" than I do actual "messages"Posted : 21 Mar, 2011 09:32 PMI don't see a problem with your profile. I think that you have a very nice profile. I have had similar issues. I will send out like 20 messages and I will only get 1 reply back. It seems like most of the members on here are not really actively looking. Or else they are too picky like me. :) I hope that you get more messages. |
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I get more "views" than I do actual "messages"Posted : 21 Mar, 2011 09:35 PMI second what was already said. I think your profile is good and wouldn't change it. I do understand though, I get views and hardly a single message. |
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StandingOnTheRock
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I get more "views" than I do actual "messages"Posted : 23 Mar, 2011 12:48 AMYour profile seems heartfelt and genuine. The only thing that I can possibly think of is that you seem to come across as set in your ways as non-denominational. This is not a bad thing, especially since you put I simply love Jesus. From a guy's point of view, I would be pretty sure you are saved but would not be sure if we would be growing together in God or even that you would want to go to the same Church some day. I'm sorry, my reply might sound hard but I truly hope that it helps. I am also experiencing a little of what you and jnewkirkteach are going through. Part of a Rich Mullins song seems appropriate "some people are friendly but would never be your friend, this has bent me to the ground". Take care, I'll pray for you. |
HarmJwill
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I get more "views" than I do actual "messages"Posted : 24 Mar, 2011 03:05 PMI cannot message you... im 24 ;) it could be the restrictions? |
morgan54
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I get more "views" than I do actual "messages"Posted : 30 Mar, 2011 06:13 PMHere's my 2 cents for what it's worth. You are a beautiful woman, just the kind many guys would love to call their own. That said, many guys are afraid of rejection, just as we women are. Sometimes the one that you might think is perfect for you is at the same time thinking, "a pretty girl like her would never be interested in a guy like me. She must have 100's of messages. So, they don't take a chance and send you a message! Every girl and every guy wants to be attractive but believe me, it is not always all it's cracked up to be. The other girls may be envious and the guys don't think they are worthy so.......there you are alone. I was raised to believe that "nice" girls let the man make the first move. So many times in my life I wanted so much for a guy to notice me and strike up a conversation. I believed "nice" girls did not make the first move, so I didn't. The guy never even looked my way, at least as far as I knew and ofcourse I didn't either. In hindsight, I think I might have missed the love of my life because I was too inhibited and the man was too unsure of himself. My advice to you would be, if you see someone who looks like he would make a good match for you, drop him a note. TELL him you find him attractive and interesting. After he wakes up from having fainted he just might be delighted to write back to you. He might say something like, "I never would have dreamed a beautiful girl like you would be interested in a guy like me." Give it a try. Remember the men are looking for their special someone too and besides, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Good luck! Love in Christ, Julie |