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Ojoyfulone View Profile History	Not sure if you guys have any answers for me...... Posted : 20 Jul, 2009 01:53 PM Hi, Given my circumstances (if you go to my profile, you will understand a little more about what I mean by "circumstances"), how do I get a nice guy's attention knowing that I'm not what guys are looking for at first glance(at least not from a lot of the profiles that I read, and the ones that are, either are not interested after making contact, are not willing to relocate as noted on their profile - which I can understand perfectly, or I am not the right age - too old). How do I even get a chance to let someone see me for who I am? Thanks, Joy Post Reply
View Profile History	Not sure if you guys have any answers for me...... Posted : 20 Jul, 2009 02:48 PM dear joy, just be yourself is all i know to tell ya.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Not sure if you guys have any answers for me...... Posted : 20 Jul, 2009 04:35 PM DEAR JOY, CATTLE IS RIGHT. EXERCISE PATIENCE WHILST BEING YOURSELF, YOU WILL BE FINE. Post Reply
Ojoyfulone View Profile History	Not sure if you guys have any answers for me...... Posted : 20 Jul, 2009 04:55 PM Thanks guys! :) The being patient part is hard though sometimes, isn't it? :) Thanks for the encouragement!!! Post Reply

View Profile History	Not sure if you guys have any answers for me...... Posted : 20 Jul, 2009 04:57 PM dear joy, yep it sure is.. ole cattle Post Reply
Shunammite View Profile History	Not sure if you guys have any answers for me...... Posted : 20 Jul, 2009 05:28 PM Dear Joy, As I read your post, I felt in my heart to tell you: "Let the JOY of God in you radiate out. It will be irresistible" I went back to read your profile and want to tell you this as well - I dont know if it is significantly different for men vs. women, but I personally dont think much about physical challenges. My only concern may be around being the sole bread winner, but in your case, you have clearly demonstrated in your profile that you are a smart woman who can and does provide for herself! Kudos to you! So, pls do not worry. we ALL have our insecurities. Love in Christ! B'loved Post Reply
Ojoyfulone View Profile History	Not sure if you guys have any answers for me...... Posted : 20 Jul, 2009 05:44 PM Shunammite, Thank you for your encouragement and wise advice!!! It is very much appreciated!! I work part time, so I'm not totally financially independant. I live with my mom and twin sis and together we are able to pay the bills from month to month.......didn't want to give the illusion that I make a lot of money because I don't, but God provides me with what I need to get by from day to day. I am blessed so much and forget that sometimes! Shunammite, thank you again for your kind words. I am blessed by them. Joy Post Reply