Okay guys, it's pay back time. What is the one thing that would cause you to drop a girl, and move on. The one thing you just could not deal with in a relationship, you know, like squeezing the toothpaste in the middle. LOL.
Well, here is a list of what would be my deal-breakers:
1. If I suspect that she really does not truly have a right relationship with God even though she would claim that she does.
2. She would be too judgmental and/or too critical at my expense.
3. lack of affection
I do want to appreciate the ladies on the other part of the forum of what they have mentioned as far as what there "deal breakers" would be even though I do not date very much, it has given me some good insight of what godly women are looking for.
I'm not really making fun...we all have our pet peeves, and some of them probably sound quite odd to others. Like mine for example. I cannot stand Styrofoam! It is squeaky and gives me chills up my spine like fingernails on a chalkboard. It creeps me out! And this transfers over to puffed wheat/rice cereal type stuff as well, cause it "squeeks" when you chew it! (does NOT include Rice Krispies, however). I also hate using cardboard boxes for storage and storing things under the bed. It encourages spiders to hide out under there, and THAT creeps me out, too.
Here I go again with too much info. and this is a MEN"S thread. Oy Vey!
Well, I can't help it. I thought that one was funny, 'cause I have long hair ~ but I do clean up after myself, lol!
Why do you have #5 up there? Sex is only for marriage, and marriage is not to be considered for moving on unless you desire to do something God hates. What God brings together, let no man separate.
If you are talking about dating, #5 should not be there, no?
I have a list of many things but I will only speak from experience:
*Doesn't delight in the idea of as many children as God gives.
*Desires career/anything else over motherhood if God gives children.
*Over time, superficiality is revealed such as "If you lost a leg, I might break up with you before marriage" (my ex-fiancee said this).
*Does not have a submissive spirit.
*Does not love God's word or is not pliable to conforming to it.
*Not teachable.
things like lying or "cheating", whatever that means, should go without saying.
That is a good question. I guess it was one of those things I have experienced in the past, unfortunately it is usually accompanied by worse behaviors as well, like adultery. It is one thing some women use to try to take control of the marriage and make the man submit to their will. But you are right, it should not have been included here.
