Well the statement could be viewed in different ways, just depends on how you want to read it. I will go a different route then the previous statement to the question. In todays society people are more absorbed into the trappings of the world, what it says is love, romance, a good time, etc... and not their faith or Bible. It is all about the quick, instant gratification. And they fool themselves into thinking this is natural, wonderful and things are great. But there is more misery now in our society then ever before because of this diluted fake love that is peddle out there. And the sad thing is, no one wants to see how bad it is. Just place your head in the sand, it will just be better then next time around. If people would read their Bible they would know that manners, empathy, kindness and the laws that people lack today and ignore are not there to limit joy, happiness, good times or anything. It is there to bring us those things and more. But like a child that is told to eat their veggies, they donοΏ½t want to, even if it is good for them. Just give them the candy.
So I see the question as this, it is a wish and hope that a man would look up, want to seek you out as a person. To see you for who you are completely. Not just a skin deep, but one where he sees your heart, mind, soul and knows you. Is it desperate to want such a thing, not at all. People have lost touch with what is true in life. But again, as stated, the statement could be seen in many ways. This is just one of them.
Yes that sounds desperate, lazy, and honestly unappealing. Both Men and Women have competition, sitting and waiting for Prince Charming to swoop you off of your feet is setting yourself up for failure.
I am confused too, if I think it about it negatively then it really does sound desperate.. however if I take it positively.. well... sometimes..one need to be honest too with how she really feels deep in her heart....
"will a man go out and find me?" Does that statement sound desperate? What you think men?
Your statement sounds like an expression of doubt more than anything. Questioning if you'll find a husband and worrying that marriage might pass you by. Whether second guessing yourself, or feeling that God is withholding a husband from you, doubt undermines faith in God.
A mark of a desperate woman is that she never really finds what she's seeking, so be sure to guard your heart against loneliness and the feeling of urgency which can negate the work of faith, labour of love, and hope of the promise.
Trust in the Lord, learn to be content in your present state, and you'll be a finer woman for it. Have a blessed day.
It sounds desperate. There are better ways to express yourself. You're part of the mate finding, not merely a bird in a tree waiting to be found. State what you're looking for. Endeavor yourself in that search. If men and women are equals because Eve came from Adam's side, then being equal in the search is good.
I wish there were a simple answer to your question. Is your question borne out of desperation? If you have been single since 18 and anxious for a family, I'd say yes. Otherwise, I appreciate people do get lonely.
Personal interaction and some common interests are important. Above all, husband and wife should be best friends and like working together. I'm not trying to lecture.
On the other hand, you're question could also mean, "Is it me?" and it could express some insecurity. That depends on your personal expectations and what is available. If you desire a Christian husband and such men are rare, it could be a long wait.
The Good Lord understands your situation better than I. Keeping a sense of humour, having fun, and being a good role model far out weigh existing in a relationship which you regret. Phil 4:8. Have a great day.
