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How To Tell When People Lie And Make Them Tell The Truth
Posted : 31 Oct, 2020 01:48 PM

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The top reasons that people lie:

1. Because they fear the negative consequences of disclosing the truth.

2. Because they want others to believe something about them that isn’t true.

3. Because they want to avoid hurting someone’s feelings.





There are five categories of deceptive behavior that you need to look for:

1. Evasion: Think of these behaviors as linguistic acts of concealment. Example: Failure to answer the question.

2. Persuasion: These behaviors are aimed at convincing you of something, rather than conveying the information you’re asking for. Example: Invoking religion.

3. Manipulation: These behaviors are meant to disrupt your game plan. Example: Failure to understand a simple question.

4. Aggression: These behaviors are typically exhibited by a person who feels cornered, and who needs to lash out to get you to back off. Example: Attacking your credibility.

5. Reaction: These are behaviors that are triggered by the autonomic nervous system when your question creates a spike in anxiety. Example: Hand-to-face activity.





There are nine key steps to getting at the truth:

1. Adopt a sincere, understanding tone and demeanor.

2. Help the person rationalize his actions.

3. Minimize the seriousness of the situation.

4. Socialize the situation so the person doesn’t feel so alone.

5. Assure the individual that there is plenty of blame to go around.

6. Don’t allow the person to voice a lie or a denial.

7. Take advantage of the power of repetition.

8. Use implicit rather than explicit language.

9. Never sit in judgment.

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How To Tell When People Lie And Make Them Tell The Truth
Posted : 3 Nov, 2020 01:51 AM

the word can receive the Spirit of truth, that's why it cant be taught truth, its Spirit..



John 14:17

Even the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you.



1 Corinthians 2:11

For what man knoweth the things of a man, save the spirit of man which is in him? even so the things of God knoweth no man, but the Spirit of God.



1 Corinthians 2:14

But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.

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