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Aardvark
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Meeting Someone??Posted : 7 Aug, 2009 05:49 AMHow are you posed to meet someone without sounding creepy when you ask someone when they want to meet.? i was viewing a thread, here on the forums and someone said they wood find it creepy if someone asked them if they wood like to meet. how else are you posed to meet someone.??? |
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Meeting Someone??Posted : 7 Aug, 2009 10:16 AMdear ard,, i dont think id ask em right away.. give em a little time to get to know you and get comfortable with you fore you ask em out.. or meet.. if youre clickin both of you are gonna wanna meet.. |
Aardvark
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Meeting Someone??Posted : 7 Aug, 2009 11:22 AMDo you think i should still wait if i was planning on taking a trip down to the area anyway? i have been planning a trip with a friend for, like 2 years now.lol so you think they will ask me when they want to meet.? |
m_cubed
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Meeting Someone??Posted : 7 Aug, 2009 01:25 PMLol� I�m not at your plight; it�s a very valid question. It�s just funny how God really did make a verity of people with a verity of personalities. I have read in the threads where some think it�s creepy when the other person wants to call right a way and how you should take your time and form some kind of relationship first. Where I�m the type who hates typing� I do it because I have to being on-line but I can say in 2 sec. over the phone what takes me 20 min. to type� so in my mind just call me�lol. One is not wrong or right� it just shows how we are created individually and not cookie cutter �. I have meant people who live close to me and who live far away. No, it is not creepy. If someone actually likes the person they�re talking to it seams to me the logical thing is you want to meet them� |
godlymom2
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Meeting Someone??Posted : 7 Aug, 2009 02:11 PMWhatsup Aardvark! |
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angel_in_mn
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Meeting Someone??Posted : 7 Aug, 2009 04:07 PMI'd have to agree with Cattle. |
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Meeting Someone??Posted : 7 Aug, 2009 05:21 PMdear ard,,, when you feel like youre both really clickin ask her like you said above.. go hey i like you..we seem to really be clickin, so when are we gonna meet? dont go when do ya wanna meet? or anything that gives her an negative response opening.. she could go well i dont know if i wanna meet.. see the difference.. with the first one her only answer should be when.. hehe see.. thats the confident way to ask.. see you didnt give her the option of sayin no.. so itd be very hard for her to say no .. well harder anyways,, |
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Meeting Someone??Posted : 8 Aug, 2009 07:47 AMI think it doesn't hurt to ask. The worst that can be said is NO. No never killed anyone. :winksmile: |
Aardvark
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Meeting Someone??Posted : 8 Aug, 2009 09:35 AMThanks Ladies and Gentmen. I appreciate it. |
muggsy517
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Meeting Someone??Posted : 8 Aug, 2009 01:05 PMMy personal experience is I met a super guy online, moved to the phone calls next in about a months time. Then out of the blue, he was checking out airfares to come and visit. It troubled me more than anything because he knew from the start that I was looking for friends. He wanted the friendship to develop into something more and it very well could have been something great, but my reservations of moving into an online thing too fast scared me and we have never met. We do still email, but the tension is there between us now. |