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MatthiastheLight
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Nice Guys finsish LastPosted : 8 Sep, 2009 10:15 AMMany times I've followed my heart and been nice, polite, what have and every time I get passed up for a guy who is a complete and total jerk. I heard the saying: "Nice guys finish last" |
SSpokenStallion888
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Nice Guys finsish LastPosted : 8 Sep, 2009 12:31 PMDude, I understand where you are coming from and I can truly say its a "heart" issue. The truth of the matter is: anyone can be nice. It's not hard, especially if you are a manipulator. The problem is we compare ourselves to much to other people, saying that we're more: Polite, courteous, genuine, responsible than said group of people/person etc.. You can't compare yourself to other people, rather than to god's standard. |
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Nice Guys finsish LastPosted : 8 Sep, 2009 01:54 PMvery very very good response sstallion. a women wants a good guy not a nice guy. one is strong enough to be willing to appear weak the other is just weak. |
MatthiastheLight
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Nice Guys finsish LastPosted : 8 Sep, 2009 02:36 PMwow, now that isa crazy response i never expected. sstallion, i gotta say, you hit right on a few things i obviously had wrong...big time. |
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Nice Guys finsish LastPosted : 9 Sep, 2009 11:29 AMYou know they should change that saying to: Quiet Guys finish last!@! I like the nice, but will probably not notice the quiet one as quickly. A little cockiness is helpful, but the loud mouth jerk will end up alone. Do what comes natural, trying to change to find that one special woman, means that you can never be yourself. Even changing the venue that you go searching in can be helpful. |
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Nice Guys finsish LastPosted : 10 Sep, 2009 08:38 PMIf this post is for the gals, here are some thoughts: |
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Nice Guys finsish LastPosted : 12 Sep, 2009 07:54 PMdear folks, we all want to find someone who is goodhearted and kind and loving. but at the same time who wants a nice guy or girl who is so nice theyre sickening.. as in a yes dear all the time type of person. how real is someone that always says yes dear? christian men you cant be a leader or the head of your household if youre a yes man.. you can be nice and you can be good but you also can still be a man.. and i prefer a biblical woman but yet i still dont want a yes dear kind of gal.. she would be obedient but yet there will be sometimes she should say hey are you really sure about that.. hehe cause sometimes your man self can come up with some doosies hehe.. sides without a little friction here and there you tend to loose that spontaniety and spark and settle into boring and predictable.. you wanna know why slightly bad boys attract even the good christian women ? its because they are exciting and are not predictible.. they keep folks on the edge around them.. never knowin what is gonna happen next.. yet a bad boy is no good unless he lets the good LORD guide him and calm him down some.. and realize what is acceptable actions. he can still keep that little rough edge though.. |