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Should the girl make the first move?
Posted : 6 Oct, 2009 09:00 PM

I'm pretty sure this guy is interested in me but he won't make a move...I'm sure he's just shy but maybe there really isn't anything there. So guys: do you make the first move and introduce yourself, or have patience and see what comes of it?

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Should the girl make the first move?
Posted : 14 Oct, 2009 07:40 PM

I have said this before on a different forum.

I think it is okay to instigate conversation to get to know the guy.



But, The male "species" (sorry men, you are one of your own, :laugh:) are hunters. They were made that way.



So, I don't agree with the "making the first move." Conversation is different, but don't hit on the guy haha.



But that is just my opinion.

Hey, if it works, go for it. But, let him hunt sometime ;)

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Should the girl make the first move?
Posted : 15 Oct, 2009 09:29 AM

Who's hunting who?:ROFL:

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Should the girl make the first move?
Posted : 15 Oct, 2009 03:12 PM

Men hunting women I would hope.

They are the warriors after all

That is how God created them.

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Should the girl make the first move?
Posted : 16 Oct, 2009 03:29 AM

i'm not gonna lie, jumpshigh, when i first heard of the concept of guys being the hunters, i thought it was just one more excuse for women not to lift a finger to try and make a relationship work or see the good in you, but now i get it and think it is excellent. except it's more like fishing than hunting.

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Should the girl make the first move?
Posted : 16 Oct, 2009 11:40 AM

Yea, that could be true too.

I've just grown up that way.



It was the only way, since not having a dad around, that my mom could explain to me how to NOT be the pursuer...Like looking doesn't hurt lol, but not to initiate EVERYTHING you know?



So, that is just my opinion on it :)

Glad you see what I meant by it

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Should the girl make the first move?
Posted : 16 Oct, 2009 01:35 PM

Yeah, I've rarely been approached by a girl first...I always have to step up and make initial contact. When the girl does it first it's kind of refreshing, but I never expect it and always depend on myself to make first contact.



But the question of SHOULD the girl make the first move? Sure, just makes our jobs easier. :laugh:

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Should the girl make the first move?
Posted : 16 Oct, 2009 09:45 PM

Ok..so I'm thinking just initiating the conversation and see where it goes from there? It does no harm to say hi or how are you does it? Hopefully it will work!

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Should the girl make the first move?
Posted : 21 Oct, 2009 08:05 PM

I met a woman on this site that made the first move. She sent a wink and I replied. Now we have become good friends and I'm blessed.

I was not offended, "it was just a wink"!

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Should the girl make the first move?
Posted : 25 Oct, 2009 08:19 PM

well i;am old fashion i would like to think there are some good men out there who would validate in the whooing women like it and i think men are meant to lead like in a dance :applause:





connie :waving:

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Should the girl make the first move?
Posted : 26 Oct, 2009 02:25 AM

must be nice

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