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Iliachen
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For Ladies 40yrs and abovePosted : 1 Dec, 2019 09:21 PMForgive me for not being 40, but I've had experience in dating with semi-larger age gaps -- I've learned age =/= maturity.
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Iliachen
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How would you want to be approachedPosted : 1 Dec, 2019 08:50 PMOff topic: I keep reading your name as BlessedBUnny, hahaha.
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Iliachen
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How would you want to be approachedPosted : 1 Dec, 2019 08:49 PMWell, some may be okay with that, but if you've seen the show Catfish, you'd understand. Just yesterday, I had some random guy on Instagram message me with "Hey sexy" and pretty much followed the exact same script every Nigerian money scammer follows. I swear, there's a textbook on it. They almost always ask you to buy a gift card or use bitcoin to send them cash for some false sob story.
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Iliachen
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School a manPosted : 1 Dec, 2019 08:45 PMThat not having an actual photo of yourself makes us think you're a catfish, aka have something to hide.
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Iliachen
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Snobbing/ghostingPosted : 1 Dec, 2019 08:42 PMAs a woman who's always had a decent number of guy friends, and has been told I can relate to them on a certain level, I'll say this: sometimes ghosting really is just easier. I think it comes from a place of knowing that person will feel crushed if you DO say, "Sorry, I'm not interested." Or they'll act entitled as butts, then turn nasty and say, "Well I wasn't really that interested in you anyway, you're not all that."
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Iliachen
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For all Girls aged 40 or more about initiating contactPosted : 1 Dec, 2019 07:29 PMWing: I understand the anxiety. As a fellow introvert, I'll tell you: read the profile, type up a quick but thoughtful message in Notepad, re-read it so you don't feel you have regrets, then send it. Always approach it as meeting a new friend, but hint at more. Maybe with a small joke.
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Iliachen
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Favorites?Posted : 1 Dec, 2019 07:20 PMGiven I have a clear age preference, what's the point of adding me as a favorite? For guys old enough to have sired me, it's just plain creepy. I picture heavy mouth breathing with, "Awww yeeesss, fresh young flesh..."
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Iliachen
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Are there any girls who likes art?Posted : 30 Nov, 2019 10:19 PMTo be honest, this site's kind of... meh. Even I've kind of given up, but I figured I'd poke around the forums before I get tired of it. I'm an artist. I do a lot of crafts, sewing, digital art. I had a long hiatus for various reasons. Most of my sewing has been related to medieval reenactment, but my current area has a large activity hole. I have a few 1940s clothing patterns that are reprints.
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Iliachen
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For all Girls aged 40 or more about initiating contactPosted : 30 Nov, 2019 10:10 PMHaha, I appreciate you reading. I don't know about being a hottie. I always say that Snapseed raises my self esteem. I'm not big on photos of myself, but I wanted to prove to myself a woman can take a cool looking cigar photo without looking like a thot.
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Iliachen
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How would you want to be approachedPosted : 30 Nov, 2019 10:05 PMBy being yourself and not schmoozing us to get attention. Saying "Hi there beautiful" is a red flag. We're all internet strangers. You have to earn the right to call us by a pet name. On one Christian dating app alone, I've gone through over 150 fake profiles. The ones I chose to match with, to help prove they were fake, all said the same thing. "Wow you'e so beautiful!" Dude, it's barely been 5 minutes, calm down.
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