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Random simple advice for all men.
Posted : 16 Apr, 2022 11:26 PM

I always advice men to have one younger male friend that they can be a healthy guide and role model for. It could be in the neighbourhood, a collegaue, or someone from church. A young man(or boy) that knows he has someone to trust in you, and that you from time to time invest some time in him to teach him, talk to him and do activities with him to create trust.



There are so few "fathers" in the church, so this is a great way to become one for someone who needs it. Still the young man doesn't have to be fatherless, but just someone seeking a healthy male guide in life.



This is about the fatherless generations that has been happening all over the world for many years. So many men are not fatherless, but they lack a father who is present, intentional and a role model for their children, and espessially the sons.



Even if you didn't have any man (or your father) do this for you, I would advice to do it. It could be really simple. Offer to take him fishing, bowling, hiking or helping you fix your car. The conversation will happen there, and trust will be bulit when you show him that you are the real deal.



It is also extremely attractive to women because they are always looking for a "father" kind of man who has those traits in him.



Totally random, but possibly helpful to some men that still aren't sure how to do "church" when most activities there are women oriented and not building the man society the way men want. There is a christian movie called "corageous" where this matter is one of the examples that builds character in the men in the movie.
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Attending a new church for the first time. How to spot the single men?
Posted : 16 Apr, 2022 07:15 AM

Seems like I would have to keep my car (and my paycheck) a secret too then, to avoid golddiggers among the single men.
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Attending a new church for the first time. How to spot the single men?
Posted : 13 Apr, 2022 11:18 AM

I would prefer to meet men when grocery shopping or on the bus. Still The possibility of meeting someone single and Christian there is rare.

I'll attend church anyways, and if I cam meet someone there the chance of them being christian should be higher than the men I meet on the bus.
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Attending a new church for the first time. How to spot the single men?
Posted : 13 Apr, 2022 09:09 AM

On Monday I will attend a new church in my new hometown for the first time. I think there might be single men there, but in my age group many men are married already.



Are there any signs I can look for to spot the single men?
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Etiquette after sending a "wink"
Posted : 30 Mar, 2022 07:54 AM

I agree with the other responder. Winks could mean anything, so women prefer men to write words and message them if they want contact.
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