I Long to Be Pursued and Then Lovingly Led...

Female | 40
United States
South Carolina
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Eye Color
Body Type
A Few Extra Pounds
Hair Color
Looking For
A Marriage Partner
Church Name
Searching for Local Church
Church Attendance
Once or Twice a month
Church Raised In
Do you drink?
1 or 2 on occasion
Willing to relocate?
Possibly, who knows
Marital Status
Do you have children?
Do you want children?
Does Not Want Children
Education Level
4 Yr College Degree
My Profession
Unemployed Due to Health Reasons
interior design and decorating; shopping; traveling; writing; grammar; listening to music; attending symphonies, concerts and plays; voice acting/voiceovers; Pinterest; crossword puzzles; walking; old/classic movies; British period dramas and mysteries...
About Me
***I am not here to play games, flirt, make casual friendships, etc. If you aren't interested in marriage and will not be intentional and proactive in communication, then please move on. I am looking for a decisive man of integrity, not a passive man without backbone. And, NO, I do not want children.***

I am an intelligent, sensitive, and emotional woman who feels very deeply and thinks very deeply as well. I love learning new things and having dialogue about a variety of subjects. I long to connect with someone on a deeper level, not only mind to mind but heart to heart and spirit to spirit. I do not possess the ability or strength in myself to be a godly and supportive wife, but I pray that the Lord will enable me and continue to change and grow me. I long to deeply love and respect a man, to be his supporter, his companion. I have much to learn, and I struggle in having a healthy and God-honoring relationship, but I do desire this intensely.

I am seeking a man who has placed his faith in Christ alone and has repented of his sins. A man who has a heart for God and seeks to love Him and to walk obediently by His grace. A man who will lovingly lead a woman, who will see his role as a man as an honor and privilege. A man who, though he stumbles and struggles, will courageously stand in his manhood and will rise in God's strength and not his own. A man who is masculine and manly, but who is humble and has a gentleness and tenderness. A man who seeks to be pure in heart and mind and to battle against the temptation that daily surrounds him. A man who will have a steadfast and faithful mind and heart toward his wife and will only have eyes for her and none other. A man who is brave enough to be vulnerable and to open his heart and his innermost places. A man who is willing to bond on a deeper level.

I am battling chronic health challenges that prevent me from working at present. I am going through a long season of suffering, and am praying that the Lord will be merciful and gracious and send a godly, compassionate man into my life that will show me the love of Christ. Is there a man out there who will view a woman with the eyes of Christ and look beyond her brokenness and limitations to see that there is worth and value? In a human or worldly sense, I may not have as much to offer as other women, but I have the Lord, my desire for Him (though it wavers and is imperfect), and my yearning to give myself wholeheartedly and unreservedly to my husband.
First Date
I am somewhat open to the venue, but I want to be in a location and situation in which I feel safe--certainly a public place. Perhaps a more casual setting where we can both be relaxed and have opportunity for conversation... ☺
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