Author	Thread: Why don't women respond to some men's messages?
Dutchvan777 View Profile History	Why don't women respond to some men's messages? Posted : 23 Feb, 2013 04:09 PM Could I for once get a job as an air traffic controlling and start com-plane-ing about one little thing? Haha, :) Very, very few of you women out there reply to my messages. I'm sorry for complaining, am I sinning? I guess I am. Israel complained in the wilderness and God punished them. I know that the desire for a wife is not wrong, but desiring a wife can become an idol. Desiring a wife becomes an idol when I sin in my desiring for a wife. Somehow, I must find all that I need in Christ. May God help me. Why don't you reply? My best guesses are: you think we live too far apart, or you gave up on CDFF years ago. You might think I am creepy, or am a scam. Maybe you are just too busy to respond to every message from men? Maybe something you don't like about me, not rich enough or something? Maybe you missed my message? Maybe I'm too short? Maybe I don't look fun enough? Maybe I'm too conservative? Maybe I'm too spiritual? Who can know the mind of a woman? haha! :) I'm still figuring out my own mind sometimes. :P hehe! ANYWAY, Why don't you reply? Post Reply
Dutchvan777 View Profile History	Why don't women respond to some men's messages? Posted : 23 Feb, 2013 04:13 PM May God be leading all of us to our future marriages. May all of our future marriages be in God's hands to bless and strengthen our walk with God. God often uses marriage to make us more like Christ. God bless, Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	Why don't women respond to some men's messages? Posted : 24 Feb, 2013 10:54 AM Why don't you reply? My best guesses are: you think we live too far apart, or you gave up on CDFF years ago. You might think I am creepy, or am a scam. Maybe you are just too busy to respond to every message from men? Maybe something you don't like about me, not rich enough or something? Maybe you missed my message? Maybe I'm too short? Maybe I don't look fun enough? Maybe I'm too conservative? Maybe I'm too spiritual? Looks like you already have the answer(s) to your question. Post Reply
reboquioEmz View Profile History	Why don't women respond to some men's messages? Posted : 24 Feb, 2013 05:16 PM :ROFL: You have all the possible answers. Honestly before i'll open any emails i'll read the sender's profile,first. I usually not respond if the sender write "god" (small letters) instead of "God" or GOD on their profile or messages. It may sound shallow or funny to some but to me it really matter. Post Reply
Dutchvan777 View Profile History	Why don't women respond to some men's messages? Posted : 24 Feb, 2013 06:03 PM I guess I agree with you. It could be assumed that if someone has put God in the lowercase, then they might be a non-christian. Non-christians tend to do this. However, they may have made a mistake. who knows? So what other reasons do you have for not answering men's messages? Post Reply
reboquioEmz View Profile History	Why don't women respond to some men's messages? Posted : 24 Feb, 2013 06:38 PM yes,mistake is inevitable but we can do something to make it right... I dont respond to a 2-letter word or a single sentence.. Post Reply
Dutchvan777 View Profile History	Why don't women respond to some men's messages? Posted : 24 Feb, 2013 06:47 PM Yes, well, one thing is that some men, would not mind driving a few hours to get to know a woman better. I am one of those men. Of course, before the 3 hour drive, there would need to be some interaction online. Talk or chat with the person better and get to know them better, before you decide to meet them. As a side note, always, always meet in public, at least until you trust the person is not going to rape or kill you, or steal your money. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Why don't women respond to some men's messages? Posted : 25 Feb, 2013 04:46 PM I do my best to respond to every message I receive...but then again, that's not hard to do because I don't get many messages on here. Sometimes it's really tempting to ignore certain messages, though. When someone from another country contacts me with a marriage proposal in the first message (yes, it has happened more than once), I'd rather pretend I didn't get the message at all. When someone has an antagonistic profile, and I am pretty sure that a "not interested" reply will only result in a hateful return message, it's a lot easier to just ignore the message. Still, I do try to answer every message, even though I'll admit that sometimes I just use the standard "I don't think we would make a good match" option that is supplied on this site. Post Reply
redeemedrachel View Profile History	Why don't women respond to some men's messages? Posted : 26 Feb, 2013 01:31 AM It's for the simple reason that sending a "no thanks" message prolongs the conversation. Some guys will write back, asking "Why not?" etc. If we're not interested, we're just not, and that could be for any number of reasons. If I've looked at your profile and not responded, that's a "no thanks." Post Reply
View Profile History	Why don't women respond to some men's messages? Posted : 26 Feb, 2013 04:25 AM I think consideration of oneanother is a evidence of the heart of Christ, right? A simple thanks for the wink or message is all we really need to give and if they persist then you ignor or tell them no thanks or good luck in your search. Or in your first response we can say thanks for the .......good luck in your search... Is consideration and politeness asking so much? Are our lives that buisy that we can not have etiquite? Where is the honor? Especially us men. We need to lead by example. We men need to honor every woman who cross our path. When we begin to honor women they will follow with great respect for us. We have to be the ones who lead this guys. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why don't women respond to some men's messages? Posted : 26 Feb, 2013 07:29 AM Is there any chance, Dutchvann, that women write to you first? If there were, did you respond to all of them? If there's any case you did not, what could be the possible reasons you have? That works the same with women, too. And basically, like anybody said, it also depends on the message you were writing. Post Reply

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