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Admin	AVAILABLE Posted : 26 Jul, 2014 08:55 AM What are the conservative ways a lady may convey her availability to engage in a relationship? (Please exclude joining sites as this) Thanks :-) Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	AVAILABLE Posted : 26 Jul, 2014 09:42 AM Interesting question you've asked Serve! I can only think of a common hobby you'll have with your possibly found mate. Spend your time in places where you're most likely to meet him. Say maybe you're a poem fan, go out often to poetry bars. If you love community out reach, visit more often in offends homes and old age homes. Could be a specific sport you enjoy playing or watching. Avail yourself there more often so you increase your chances of meeting him doing what you both enjoy doing. Since these are more of public places and not the worship house (church) You'll be even more dependent on the Holly Spirit's help and guidance in selecting a suitable person who share in your same believe in Christ. Then you'll take it from there.. Go out there and have fun. Network and interact with people, you'll never know who you might meet in places you least expect to find a partner God be with you on your search dear!!:nahnah: Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	AVAILABLE Posted : 26 Jul, 2014 12:05 PM Sisygirl my friend......I couldn't add more to that if I tried:applause:!!! Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	AVAILABLE Posted : 27 Jul, 2014 11:36 PM Sisygirl...good advice.Can't think of anything more. Post Reply
View Profile History	AVAILABLE Posted : 28 Jul, 2014 02:02 PM :applause: Sisy you nailed it! Blessings sister! Post Reply
View Profile History	AVAILABLE Posted : 29 Jul, 2014 05:51 PM I've got a question about this, myself: If a girl's interested in a guy, what would you suggest to her to express her interest in him, so that he gets the message beyond a reasonable doubt? It's all too easy for guys to miss genuine signs of interest, or mistake them for a nice disposition, after all. Post Reply
View Profile History	AVAILABLE Posted : 30 Jul, 2014 04:40 PM Bloodnok Id suggest you ask her to be sure! If you are interested in her then ask her to be sure of her interest. If you are not interested in her then Id suggest you ask her anyways so you can gently explain that you do not share her feelings Post Reply
View Profile History	AVAILABLE Posted : 1 Aug, 2014 08:52 AM hey ladies! thank you very much for your responses :-) it is absolutely correct that i should be in the right place with the right crowd. However, if i already like someone in particular, how am i going to convey said interest in a "conservative" way without appearing that i am taking the initiative? I am soliciting for specific gestures :-) TO BLOODNOK: I still believe that majority of men would like to be the ones who will initiate in a boy-girl relationship. It is safe not to assume that a guy likes a girl in a special or romantic way unless he will tells her so. The default presumption: he is just a gentleman and a very thoughtful one. I am extra careful as to how i behave before men so that i will not be misinterpreted too and as mentioned by someone in the thread, nothing beats the verbal communication in knowing the real score. Personally, however, whenever the person i like is around, i can't help but get uneasy (i really hope my face is not red if he will speak to me) then my voice naturally or involuntarily becomes a bit "pitchy" and i turn out to be extremely dumb where the only response i can give in a conversation is a nod. I'd say, those count as non-verbal signs of interest over another. Add to it, frequent glances and unlimited smiles. BACK TO THE LADIES: The narration above somewhat answered my query but such fall in the category of "unguarded" instances :-) I am more interested as to the "conscious efforts" in communicating interest to the opposite sex in a conservative way. i wonder if there is any and the "conservative" requirement complicates it because it is subjective. Post Reply
View Profile History	AVAILABLE Posted : 1 Aug, 2014 10:29 AM Sister how about you do something nice for him that you dont do for anyone else? When your group of people get together,take him his fav cookies. When the waitress swings by ,offer to buy him a soda....There are countless ways to set him apart from the others. Sometimes I guess you may have to be blatantly obvious. I wont expound on that. Your a woman,you get my drift! :excited: Blessings!!:purpleangel: Post Reply
View Profile History	AVAILABLE Posted : 1 Aug, 2014 07:16 PM Servewithlove, I think that's what I was asking - if a girl's interested in a guy, and the guy's clueless with regard to her interest (thinking no more than "she's a nice girl", and so on), what should she do? I've the notion that she must say something about it if she's not to suffer in silence, and that whoever might "ask the other one out" or not is another (albeit close) issue itself. That's just what I think, but this is the ask a girl forum. Your thoughts? Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	AVAILABLE Posted : 3 Aug, 2014 11:41 AM Bloodnok "I think that's what I was asking - if a girl's interested in a guy, and the guy's clueless with regard to her interest what should she do?" I think your question is dependent on ones character and personality, though since there's such an expression of different thoughts and emphasy of how "wrong" it is for a woman to speak her interest to a guy, signals and body language will complicate this even further. Nothing beats straight talk from two mature adults just as long as there's acceptance and respect on the next part's reply! (this means accepting his lack of interest if that's what he communicates back to the lady). Unfortunately when liking or loving someone you're exposed to a possibility of rejection! We can't separate the two, they always come as a package. Since Serve is too concerned of what and how she reflects herself around this guy, and most definitely doesn't wanna initiate, I think she should do it in disguise. Let her throw the ball in his court by taking her submissive portion by challenging the guy to take his leading position too. Let her arrange a bible study or research were she'll be in a position to ask him to LEAD her through that particular session. Then take it from there. This should clear up if she can be able to submit under his leadership if things were to work out. As they both meet and share in this common interest, the level of his spiritual maturity will be revealed too. The more they meet, its the more they'll connect through further communications other than the bible sessions. A lot will be confirmed on those regular meetings, cause liking someone from a distance may turn once you share in his spirit and get to learn his mindset. A lot will most definitely be confirmed if you'll relate and complement each other or not! Post Reply

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