Author	Thread: Just a little confused...
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Just a little confused... Posted : 11 Jul, 2009 08:47 PM Ok...I guess what I'd like to know is..."is there something wrong with me/my profile? Do I look scary or sound crazy??" It's probably one that's asked a lot...but I'm kinda new to the forums, so please over-look my "forum ignorance". I guess maybe I'm just confused...I'm getting conflicting signals...I set up my profile on here, slapped on a couple pictures, viewed some profiles...and I started getting emails/winks...and quite a few...and I was like..."cool, this is fun...people are showing interest". Met a lot of cool girls, had some great conversations...BUT! And I guess here's the real question...those were all from girls emailing me...or me emailing them in reply to a "wink". When I send emails...it's the exact opposite...hardly anything...not even a polite "no thanks"...and I've tried everything...from the super short emails trimmed down to basically "we should talk sometime", to "trying" to be funny, trying to start a conversation about stuff we have in common...everything. And I usually get nothing except profile views...Why? If I don't say anything...I get a lot of emails/winks. If I try to send email...I get nothing...I'm so confused...and I guess that's two questions:goofball: I've read some of the forum posts and it seems like there are a lot of girls asking why guys don't email them first...this is probably why. I'm about to give up and just stick to the ones that email me. It's too painful to step out and get "rejected" all the time(if that's what it is...). :peace::peace: Markus Post Reply
slj3_1 View Profile History	Just a little confused... Posted : 11 Jul, 2009 10:20 PM Hi Mark, Just a few words from an older lady. I read your profile, you are really funny. Just keep on posting, you'll find someone. I have a single daughter.....lol(She'd kill me if she knew I put that on here!!!) God Bless You, Sandy Post Reply
View Profile History	Just a little confused... Posted : 11 Jul, 2009 10:53 PM I read ur profile u are funny, Welcome to the forums. :waving: Keep ur good faith in Christ and be patient.:angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	Just a little confused... Posted : 12 Jul, 2009 04:51 AM Ha! I feel your pain. I havn't been here that long, and I get no answer to mails which are read. I would have thought it would be common courtesy to give SOME answer. You wouldn't ignore someone who says hi in the street? Would you? But at least your get winked at and approached.... I don't even get that... Post Reply
View Profile History	Just a little confused... Posted : 12 Jul, 2009 05:04 AM LIKEWISE, I'M IN THE SAME BOAT AS GRUFFALO. I MEAN, MY QUERY IS THAT, IN SPECIFIC RELATION TO MEN AND WOMEN WHO SEND NON ABUSIVE, POLITE E-MAILS AND GET NO RESPONSES, FOR THOSE WHO DO NOT REPLY, I'M NOT NO JUDGE, BUT HOW CAN WE SAY THAT WE SERVE AND LOVE GOD, IF WE CANNOT ASSOCIATE AND FELLOWSHIP WITH THOSE WHO LOVE HIM JUST AS MUCH. IT WILL BE NICE TO ATLEAST GET A, "SORRY I'M NOT INTERESTED" , BUT TO NOT RESPOND AT ALL, THATS JUST PLAIN, COLD. Post Reply
desipe View Profile History	Just a little confused... Posted : 12 Jul, 2009 09:55 AM hey markus, you have an awesome profile, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it, its funny and i guess it is you!!! roaming through the forums got me talking to the real people!!! so let me tell you ... welcome to the forums markus :rocknroll: diana Post Reply
View Profile History	Just a little confused... Posted : 12 Jul, 2009 03:13 PM Hi Mark, I read your profile. I liked it very much. About people not responding...we all have the same issue. Some people are polite and some aren't. Like some of the bros here told me...don't take it personal and keep trying. God Bless, Zoe :angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	Just a little confused... Posted : 13 Jul, 2009 01:54 AM From my short experience here and another site. Almost everyone will not reply a wink or a mail (no matter how long or short). Same with those whose profiles encourage you to send them a message. So, I just equate it to not being interested, especially after getting the profile views. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Just a little confused... Posted : 13 Jul, 2009 09:04 AM I get the whole "not interested" thing...I really do...it's just confusing when a bunch of people email me first, but when I try...I strike out every time...it makes a certain person think there is something wrong with them...in a confusing kind of way. And I know that everyone is different, and not everyone is looking for the same thing....but every time?? Maybe I'm just attracted to people that aren't attracted to me...maybe that's whats wrong...but that's not really true either...'cuz they don't even give me a chance 95% of the time...*sigh*...I just don't know...I'm just...confused. And I'm the kind of person that has to figure everything out....this one is giving me trouble...which is why I brought it to the forums! :yay::applause: I've appreciated the input so far, thanks. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Just a little confused... Posted : 13 Jul, 2009 05:57 PM The right girl will come when the time is right. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Just a little confused... Posted : 13 Jul, 2009 08:41 PM You're right...I know you're right...but it's getting...so...depressing...this waiting. I'm 24. I know that seems young to a lot of people, but I feel like I've been alive a LONG time...I feel old...in my mind...if you can understand that...and life is just ticking by so...slowly...I'm just getting tired of waiting...*insert life story that is impossible to explain without sounding insane*...*break for intermission*...*waiting for the second act...still waiting*...but don't worry about me. I haven't given up yet. I can handle it. HE gives me patience, so thanks to Him I'm still here....:prayingm::prayingm:...and still waiting:goofball:... :peace::peace: P.S. (Just so everybody knows...if I was "desperate" or if what I was waiting for was "physical"...I wouldn't still be waiting...I'm still here because I want something more, and I'm not settling for anything less...so...just trying to be clear.....you know who you are...) Post Reply

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