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Admin	first letter Posted : 3 Jun, 2010 01:02 PM Hello, I wonder if you'd reply and include your age bracket (the ages you're considering). For either gender - if someone contacts you for the first time, do you respond? I can only imagine how much women are pestered with unwanted letters. Pester - those are the ones you're not interested in. If they look or sound interesting then I'd guess those aren't pestering! lol I feel we all have parameters of acceptance. I would much rather have a simple, "Sorry, I don't think we'd make a good match" than no answer at all. I just went through 'pages' of Sent messages and discovered I'd written a few women several times. Rather embarrassing! Post Reply
View Profile History	first letter Posted : 3 Jun, 2010 01:51 PM Unless the letter was sexually inappropriate or vulgar, I would reply. I'd read through his profile and usually find something that indicated incompatibility, and then send back a brief message explaining that. Post Reply
View Profile History	first letter Posted : 3 Jun, 2010 01:57 PM If he seemed interesting, then I'd respond directly to his message and then ask a question or 2 about his profile. I'd ask him to explain something further or to clarify a statement. In your case, I would require some dialogue about the Princess Leia slave outfit statement. Since it's following your statement about wanting an exercise partner, I'd want to know if you think it's an appropriate exercise outfit? Or, if you think that it's appropriate streetwear? Or, if you'd like it be bedroom attire? And, if you think it's for bedroom attire, I would then ask why you were addressing such an intimate topic in your profile. Post Reply
marikashome View Profile History	first letter Posted : 3 Jun, 2010 02:03 PM considering 35-45 I try to always respond if someone takes the time to contact me. They deserve that much, unless they are rude or vulgar-but I haven't had any of that. Actually I haven't been pestered. I've met a few very nice men on here, and one or two that were very insistent that I give them my phone number, facebook info, or e-mail. When I said no, they never wrote back. Don't be embarrassed about writing more than once. My guess is that if you didn't realize you'd written more than once, she may not realize you did either, unless you wrote twice on the same day. Post Reply
View Profile History	first letter Posted : 3 Jun, 2010 07:08 PM I always reply every time. Even if just to say "I don't think we'd make a good match" .... or something along those lines. My age range? Within 10 years of my age. I've found that works for me. Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	first letter Posted : 3 Jun, 2010 08:12 PM bamak - If someone contacts me for the first time, I always respond.... just out of simple courtesy... Now the response, don't ask, cause sometimes the 1st message is a doosie!! ( I wanna poke-um! Some good, some I get not so good! I can tell ya, my main profile pic is of food, and I tell you I get many look-see's just because of the display of food (which I dont' mind), then I get some who actually read my profile, and look at the other pics too. (That's good too, except for this one joker who offended me, and really got me hot under the collar!!:angeldevil:) I can tell you though, I DO know what I want in a man, and I AM looking for a Godly man. I've already prayed to our Lord that He give me discernment that I can "SEE" and not be deceived in what I'm looking at. I can tell you I've been deceived once on this site, but it only took that one time. I like what you said about us all having " parameters of acceptance".... very good! Thank you! ~ GraceMae :glow: Post Reply
View Profile History	first letter Posted : 4 Jun, 2010 12:10 AM So you seem pretty down to earth. Would you do me a favor? . . . I wonder if there's something about my profile (whether it be too many words or just my wording) that is repelling at all. I think if there was you'd say it so please take a look and show me the err of my ways if there is any. lol. I don't necessarily think I've done something wrong, I have simply learned that it is almost always a godd idea to get a lady's opinion. Thanks. Post Reply
View Profile History	first letter Posted : 4 Jun, 2010 12:14 AM By the way, the request was meant for pixy. lol. Sorry, forgot to specify. Post Reply
View Profile History	first letter Posted : 4 Jun, 2010 01:00 AM Abr, I'm not sure why you've selected me out of the hundreds of fine ladies on this site to critique your profile. Surely, I'm just not qualified for such a task. You see, I'm really not that down to earth. In fact, I have my head in the clouds a good majority of the time. Post Reply
View Profile History	first letter Posted : 4 Jun, 2010 12:05 PM Pixy- you head is in the clouds. OHHHHH boy!!!!!! I agree you are really lost in the clouds.:ROFL: :dancingp: :glow: Post Reply
View Profile History	first letter Posted : 4 Jun, 2010 06:39 PM Well....I can't make up my mind so I can't say anything in my reply. I am only a woman ...don't make it so hard for me as it is to choose between all men there is....:excited: I maybe change my mind and then have I said we don't match.....so sad it should be IF, I have started to write to a man for a long time then I should answer and tell them I am in a contact with a man I am interested of ...but so far am I not. Capish ? Si y no ?:nahnah: Post Reply

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