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Admin	Let's NOT talk about sex ... let's talk about ... Posted : 18 Oct, 2010 04:53 AM ROMANCE!!! :hearts::hearts::hearts: What would you consider something ROMANTIC to do in bed with your husband? ... we've shared some of the romantic things we would barefoot enjoy doing outside of bed ... LOTS of those to enjoy!!! ... now ... in bed, what is romantic to your heart for a guy to share doing with you? IS there anything ROMANTIC ... or is SEX better than ROMANCE for ya ta share in bed with your guy? One of the barefoot romantic things I enjoy sharing in bed comes AFTER sex ... when we don't just rush out of bed to do other things, but continue to hold each other and barefoot snuggle, caressing each other, and talking and thanking God together for the barefoot pleasures we've just shared in giving each other!!! :hearts::hearts::hearts: How 'bout you? My BAREFOOT FAVORITE Lorrie Morgan love song is titled "Talk To Me" and its lyrics about this very joy: " ... and in those moments after we've made love ... that's when he holds me close ...and gives me what I need the MOST ... he talks to me; ... It does my heart good ... to hear him talk to me ... like a lover should; ... He can ease my frustration ... with his soothing conversation ... and I LOVE THE WAY ... he's NOT AFRAID ... to TALK to me!!!" ... this is what I love too!!! Steve Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	Let's NOT talk about sex ... let's talk about ... Posted : 18 Oct, 2010 01:54 PM ok Mr Barefoot, this is getting inappropriate. Post Reply
View Profile History	Let's NOT talk about sex ... let's talk about ... Posted : 18 Oct, 2010 04:14 PM river of life, where are you when DeeDee and others are posting "LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX" etc ... so now its "inappropriate" to "NOT talk about sex" but instead ROMANTIC things to enjoy in bed? I posted THIS so we COULD get away from all the sex posts lately ... this post is "appropriately" about other things after or before lovemaking that a Christian couple would enjoy before God doing in bed ... NOT SEX!!! Steve Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	Let's NOT talk about sex ... let's talk about ... Posted : 18 Oct, 2010 04:36 PM women are not going to share with you what they like in bed before or after sex with their husband. maybe I am the only one but I feel it's TOTALLY inappropriate. Post Reply
View Profile History	Let's NOT talk about sex ... let's talk about ... Posted : 18 Oct, 2010 05:19 PM I agree with you barefoot. But I do my best not to post in this section. Weren't you paying attention in 5th grade? In case you were sick that year, let me fill you in; During recess out on the play ground the girls were accepted if they wanted to play kickball or football. But if a boy wanted to do the girl things, he was not accepted in. Some things don't change with age. Of course in todays society you could be accepted if you posted as "Gayfoot", but probably not a good idea on a christian site. As for my 2 cents worth; I agree with you 100% P.S. You know I might have to take a bullet for you; (for posting in this section) :ROFL: Post Reply
View Profile History	Let's NOT talk about sex ... let's talk about ... Posted : 18 Oct, 2010 05:28 PM ok so I was not offended by this topic maybe a bit shoked but hey once I read ths question it isone to make you think. What is romance? I think everyone sees it differently.. so INSIDE marriage and in bed holding each other and talking and and just enjoyiong being together.. if i remember correctly that is..LOL Post Reply
View Profile History	Let's NOT talk about sex ... let's talk about ... Posted : 18 Oct, 2010 07:03 PM River is not the only one. Both topics, I felt, were not appropriate. Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	Let's NOT talk about sex ... let's talk about ... Posted : 18 Oct, 2010 07:18 PM i just read what you wrote steve in the other post and asking Pixy what she would do "wild" in bed is so offensive. You just take the "sex" thing to another level and I find it very strange that a man your age would ask a young girl what she would do in bed with her HUSBAND. the things done behind closed doors between a man and wife would not be your business! we are adults and having a conversation about intimacy is one thing but in my opinion, you take it to far. Post Reply
View Profile History	Let's NOT talk about sex ... let's talk about ... Posted : 19 Oct, 2010 01:38 AM I guess I'm just a little confused on what we can and can't discuss concerning our sex lives in marriage conversations and sharings of our hearts here, river and godslamb, because God discusses sex freely too in His Word in the Song of Solomon and other scriptures and He's not going "too far", but just being open and honest about it too ... and when you bring up the posts/topics about sex so much lately, whether jokingly or not, a guy tends to think you're prepared to fully discuss without being offensive or offended the topic you've brought up. So ... anyway, I apologize if I've been getting inappropriate in my open discussion and responses to the sex post/topics others have brought up and humbly ask your forgiveness. Sorry, pixy, too, for wondering what you considered "wild" and "tame" in bed in your openness about a wife being a little "wild" in bed and asking you to unoffensively elaborate on that if you could. Please forgive me too for asking ya if you could do that. And now it's time to begin dodging future Christian sex discussion bullets by letting all of you gals discuss whatever you want to discuiss about Christian sex without input from my heart and spirit too. I'll just share my heart and spirit's "2 cents worth" on other topics and everyone, especiallly God, will be happy and pleased. Steve Post Reply
cowgirl1984 View Profile History	Let's NOT talk about sex ... let's talk about ... Posted : 19 Oct, 2010 07:06 PM I agree with river. Things can get taken too far, and the example she mentioned about what Steve said regarding pixy in another thread is one of those times. The difference is that it's okay to talk about the importance of intimacy, but it is NOT okay to talk in detail about the specific things you would do. By the same token, I DO think that we ladies have some responsibility in this. It's possible that when we (myself included quite often) discuss this topic, it might get the wheels in a man's head turning to the point where he gets a little too into it and crosses the line. This would count as causing someone to stumble. When we talk about these subjects, it shouldn't come as quite as much of a shock as it did when it starts to cross the line. There is an element of self-control and personal responsibility that we should exercise in order to stay within the lines, but we also have to take some responsibility for our own actions or words that may have influenced it. Post Reply
View Profile History	Let's NOT talk about sex ... let's talk about ... Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 04:27 AM The acts of love are best left for the actors of love to discuss with those of their own sex offline if you are talking about Christians in physical. That's my two centavos. Sorry, I'm a red blooded man like anyone else here with definite feelings, convictions, etc. about what I would do and wouldn't do, but that I would think that any discussion of that should only with a woman whom I'm engaged with in a counseling session before my pastor or a counselor. As a minister, I've found its a lot safer that way and it's what I strongly encourage. I find way too many people in the church living and acting no differently from our sexualized culture that views the desire for this most beautiful side of our personal lives that God can give us as an impulse of no more consequence then ordering a pizza or gassing up our car. We've swallowed the belief that we can do this so casually .. in the Song of Solomon, what did the Sh Asking another single woman you haven't met about what she would like to do is entirely INAPPROPRIATE. Sorry, but there's boundaries to discussions that should be set. Even the beloved of the Song of Solomon said so .. I charge you, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, by the roes, and by the hinds of the field, that ye stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please .. Post Reply

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