Author	Thread: A call from behind the wall.
Rabbit32 View Profile History	A call from behind the wall. Posted : 9 Jul, 2011 03:11 PM Being a single man looking for a woman, I am often unaware of the actions other single men and how they act. I hear horrible stories from trusted Sisters-in-Christ, that claim men have lost their minds..that looking for a good man is extremely difficult..so what�s goin in out there, please share with me your experience. Please keep in mind, to be respectful, and not come off as if you are complaining or give us advice, otherwise men will pay no heed. And I know you want be heard. It would also help you if you appear credible, for instance if you dress immodestly, and you have problem with men making sexual advances towards you..well I think you get my drift, but I�m not here to debate a topic (we can start another thread for that lol) Men pleeeeeeeaaseee just listen�do not offer advice or solutions, but encouragement, and empathy would be more than welcome�I would like this to be a platform where women can tell us men what they would like us to know, and how interactions with us make them feel  Post Reply
View Profile History	A call from behind the wall. Posted : 12 Jul, 2011 03:03 PM I would agree Marvel and even if it's rooted in being gun shy or frustration past experience, the result is impatience where on one hand they are so desperate to have some hope to cling to that when it's not instantly there they assume the worst and give up. On the other hand they are paralyzed by their own fears and really aren't spiritually or emotionally ready to be in a relationship. They will have problems trusting even if there's no reason not to, they will grow in impatience rather than patience, and will struggle to exist in a healthy relationship the strain will likely be too much on both parties. I think the best thing to do is to not get involved with someone like that don't drag them along or encourage the behavior by allowing it. Someone like that really needs to step away from dating and get his house in order spiritually, emotionally, etc. I went through this many years ago I was so desperate to find someone but yet feared rejection like the plague. What God showed me was what I needed first was not a gf but contentment and not try to fill that hole in my heart with relationships but for God to be in my heart and preparing me for when he does bring that special person into my life. Once I understood that I was in a better place to seek that person because now I am not anxious if I don't find her today, or tomorrow, or a week, or month, from now ect. When your not stressed about something you are more focused on what you should be focused on and you are more willing to wait for the right person. I truly believe if you can't be content single then you will struggle in the search with anxiety, fear, worry, doubt, etc. Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	A call from behind the wall. Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 09:39 AM rabbit: probably both...maybe they should step back and take a break for a bit...because they come off impatient and short tempered. :glow: Post Reply

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