Author	Thread: DO WOMEN REALLY KNOW WHAT MEN WANT, WHY CAN'T THEY MEET OUR NEEDS?.
Manscottell View Profile History	DO WOMEN REALLY KNOW WHAT MEN WANT, WHY CAN'T THEY MEET OUR NEEDS?. Posted : 9 Feb, 2012 04:10 PM Women can't meet men needs because we are from two different planets, we don't have the same compositions, we don't think alike. No wonder most relationships don't work. Women are looking for THEIR KNIGHT AND SHINING ARMOR, men are looking for A CARE TAKER, maybe if there is an open and honest discussion before getting into relationships, it might be a place to start. Each party making their needs known and if the other party cannot meet those demands, maybe the relationship shouldn't start. Both sides play a guessing game. Do you really know what it takes to keep a man, to play his mom. What do you say? Post Reply
Manscottell View Profile History	DO WOMEN REALLY KNOW WHAT MEN WANT, WHY CAN'T THEY MEET OUR NEEDS?. Posted : 10 Feb, 2012 07:14 AM Serenity, People that have not falling in love with LOVE whose name is GOD, have never experienced love, it is impossible to love themselves or give love to others man or woman. You cannot sell what you don't have. Relationship takes Patience, commiment and understanding but people get into relationships presnting a counterfeit picture of themselves, they expect their needs to be met and not caring or concerned if the others needs are being met. To know God is to know LOVE. Seek God first and His righteousness and all other gift will follow. Wisdom, Love, compassion, endurance and othergift of the fruits of the Spirit,l this applies to both men and women.Real love never fails. Post Reply
View Profile History	DO WOMEN REALLY KNOW WHAT MEN WANT, WHY CAN'T THEY MEET OUR NEEDS?. Posted : 10 Feb, 2012 07:23 AM I think we confuse the terms compatible and compliment. Men and women should compliment each other. We may never really know what the other really wants unless it is spoken so communications is key. But we must remember that we are different and not judge or come down harshly on something the other may want or need. It takes time and time is something needed greatly in a relationship. Especially when we do not know the foundational root of why a man or women may want or need something from the relationship. But i agree with previous posts. We cannot truly love unless we have love and are taught love by Him. If our prayers are geared to "Lord I love this person and if it is your will for us to be together teach us how to love like you love, teach us to find common ground and even if we don't help us to make it over the hurdles together." We must take caution though the reasons we may enter into a relationship, if it is because you may have had a hard time emotionally and you are looking for someone to fulfill you things may get tricky because more often than not you may tend to be selfish and want to have a monopoly on the person. There's a guy I know and he didn't get the love he wanted from his mother and when he got together with his gf if she couldn't send all her free time with him and she had to do something else he'd make her feel guilty. I was witness to a convo they had where she informed him she was invited to minister in Canada, he looked at her and didn't want her to go. When she told Him she was putting God first his reply if you can believe it or not was that he would just go home and cry until she returned. Well that relationship didn't last long. So women I think want men to be strong, not emotionally unavailable but we need to know that if things get rocky you can stick with us and I'm sure that's true for men also. It all depends on the type of man I say, but to me these things may be key; a strong woman of faith, virtuous, knows the word and ready to bruise her knees when needed. Someone responsible, a nurturer, Someone he can depend on and move forward with. Someone who won't tear Him down but will be able to stand and say "Honey and can we fix this?" He wants a partner (or should want one lol) . Just my two cents. P.s since neither sexes may fully know what the other may want until it is spoken, if you are not vocal please don't get frustrated with ur significant other if they don't get it right away because they should have "known". Post Reply
View Profile History	DO WOMEN REALLY KNOW WHAT MEN WANT, WHY CAN'T THEY MEET OUR NEEDS?. Posted : 10 Feb, 2012 01:34 PM I would venture to ask if men reall know what it is they themsleves want? And if they know, what it is they have need of from a woman? There are only four fundamentale basic needs that should be meet in a human being to make him/her complete as a person the spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical needs. And it is the responsibility of each the man and the woman to make sure he/she is capable of meeting much of these basci needs within him/herself. A woman can't make a man happy, just as a man can't make a woman happy, this comes from within ones own self, and is a decission/choice a person makes to be happy whether he has a woman, or she has a man, because the happiness depends on a personal realtisphip with Jesus Christ, and if you've got that in order than a personal realtionship with a man or a woman goes the path of the two who are involvedn ad as we are taught in scripture a threefold ocrd isn't easily broken. Christ.Man?Woman in covanent union as a couple. A relationship is not based on 50-50, its 100 -100, if the man in't giving 100 percent of himself to his woman, he can't expect his woman to give all of herself to him. 60-40 just want do, neither will 99.and a half... it must be ttal and completely 100% of each to each other. So if a man isn only dishing out 60% of himself and is not loving his wife as God has instructed he is to love her as he loves his ownself,its difficult for a woman to know anymore than what he is sharing with her. And when a man is giving his all ro his woman, there is no way, and woman will refuse to give her all to her man, thus both person are having thier needs met equally. ...just my three-cents worth.:glow: Post Reply
View Profile History	DO WOMEN REALLY KNOW WHAT MEN WANT, WHY CAN'T THEY MEET OUR NEEDS?. Posted : 10 Feb, 2012 01:50 PM I forgot, Yes, One Sojourner, it is true ans studies have been done years back that women tend to seek out men who remind them of their das, and if the dad was not in the home or was abusive, the woman tend to select ment of the same cahracter. Same as for men seeking out women who remind them of their moms in character and much is based upon if the woman can cook like mom and serve him like mom and do all mom theing. its callthe Madonna complex. Studies have proven that if a man is caring and loving toward and is a car giver and tender toward his mom and sisters and women in the family, he will make a good husband, and he seeks out a woman like his mom who appreciates his love and caring toward her. Its called the Madonna complex.. If a woman is dependant on a man to do certain things for her and allows him to be in control, and if she is loving and tender toward her man serving him, and was a care taker of her younger brothers she will make a good wife, because her father was like this toward the mom, and the woman in the family therefore a woman will seek a man to treat her like her dad.. mirroring If the father was abusive, so will the husband, if the mother will a bully and controling and bg mouth, so will the wife be toward her husband. If the father was silent and soft spoken not much to say, the woman will seek out such a man, and the same with the man seeking out the same kind of woman to marry if his mom was as such, and The woman seeking out the same kind of man to marry if he father was a silent type, etc. Post Reply
One_Sojourner View Profile History	DO WOMEN REALLY KNOW WHAT MEN WANT, WHY CAN'T THEY MEET OUR NEEDS?. Posted : 10 Feb, 2012 10:04 PM Thank you Miss ET, yes that's the study that was I had been told of. The 2 friends who told me of that study work with the young men enrolled in the mission here in town and also the women's refuge among other things. Tell you what... if you want to see some bright and shining faces and witness what God's love does in a person's life, just see some of these young men and women who found hope in our God, and seeing their lives are turning around, it's so amazing!!! They are easy to spot on Sunday worshiping with hands held high and singing their hearts out:applause: it's soo cool! Post Reply
algomaboy View Profile History	DO WOMEN REALLY KNOW WHAT MEN WANT, WHY CAN'T THEY MEET OUR NEEDS?. Posted : 13 Feb, 2012 09:33 AM I have no intention of marrying my mother. I want someone who fits me not my father. I need to trust my future wife. Post Reply
View Profile History	DO WOMEN REALLY KNOW WHAT MEN WANT, WHY CAN'T THEY MEET OUR NEEDS?. Posted : 20 Feb, 2012 09:51 AM Our Lord was (and is) a "knight in shining armor" type of guy with a heart ready, willing, eager and happy to rescue those who need to be rescured, so ... if He's our example of how to love the gals He blesses our lives with feelings of love for, then no wonder there are so many of us Christian guys with "knight in shining armor" hearts available and Christian "princesses" in need of us and longing for and searching for us to "rescue them" from living through this life without such a "helpmate", such a husband as Adam was to Eve, Joseph to Mary etc. Post Reply
View Profile History	DO WOMEN REALLY KNOW WHAT MEN WANT, WHY CAN'T THEY MEET OUR NEEDS?. Posted : 25 Feb, 2012 05:24 AM Yes,I do know what I am looking for.I am looking for a man that is completely sold out to God.I believe if the Lord is truly first in his life then he will know how to treat me.I am not looking for a knight in shining armour,more of a country boy in jeans and boots,lol.As for men looking for a "caretaker",I personally feel that it is part of my calling to take care of my man.If a man is a true man of God then I believe his wife should honor him and take care of him.I also feel that she would find great joy in doing so and in turn the man would take care of her in the ways she needs as well.I had this type of relationship with my husband for many years and I am just foolish enough to believe that I can find it again.Although I know I have a lot of strikes against me,I have to hold out hope that there is a man out that somewhere that would see that even though I am not a 20 year old Barbie doll,I am worth getting to know.I understand that with men EVERYTHING is based on physical attraction,but I just think that maybe there is too much value placed on that and not enough on the things can sustain a relationship through the storms of life.That is my opinion,for what it is worth:rolleyes: Post Reply

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