Author	Thread: Looks or Character?
jz4jfministries View Profile History	Looks or Character? Posted : 15 Jul, 2012 08:27 AM Since the same topic is going on the the Ask Guy category, I thought I do the same her and ask to the ladies of CDFF. Ladies, what is the first few things you look for in us men? a) Is it attractiveness first b) Is it charater first c) A bit a both d) Or something else thanks Jeff Post Reply
jz4jfministries View Profile History	Looks or Character? Posted : 15 Aug, 2012 12:23 PM thanks I really like how this is put... It's always been said that --- it takes LOOKS to find her, but it will always takes CHARACTER to keep her. Post Reply
okiekansas777 View Profile History	Looks or Character? Posted : 18 Aug, 2012 04:32 AM Generally on line it is the picture first and then I read the profile to see if we have things in common. Yes I want character of a good God fearing Christian man, but that comes with time. I will say I have looked at profiles without pictures and wrote to them and then there were pictures but hardly anything on the profile that I didn't write. Another thing I look at is location. Post Reply
okiekansas777 View Profile History	Looks or Character? Posted : 18 Aug, 2012 04:33 AM Generally on line it is the picture first and then I read the profile to see if we have things in common. Yes I want character of a good God fearing Christian man, but that comes with time. I will say I have looked at profiles without pictures and wrote to them and then there were pictures but hardly anything on the profile that I didn't write. Another thing I look at is location. Post Reply
View Profile History	Looks or Character? Posted : 29 Aug, 2012 04:20 PM jz4 you hit it right on the money : Looks to catch her but character to keep her :) What may appeal to me may not appeal to another sister in Christ. And just because what may appeal to me in a man does not mean he will look at me and want to get to know me either . We need all of it the whole ball of wax, for we are made of body, mind and spirit, and you have to connect in all 3 it is NOT enough to connect in 1 or 2. If the mans pic has caught my eye, then I continue and read the profile, if in that profile there is something that appeals to me, I will email him, but then the search begins for the fruit, and to see if we would connect emotionally and spiritually. All three have to be present and it's alot harder than I can begin to say. For some may have the looks and not be right emotionally or spiritually, then back to the beginning. And then the one we are trying to connect with is probably doing the same thing from their end. It is time consuming but just think if it all balances out and you connect in all 3 wow, now that would be AWESOME! :yay: Post Reply
Josh1221 View Profile History	Looks or Character? Posted : 11 Jun, 2013 10:41 PM Physical attraction shouldn't be the first thing though. For all we know there can be a homeless man yet he's so in tune with God. Chances of him finding a woman isn't as good as others. As Christians that shouldn't be the first thing that catches our eye. Post Reply

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