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Why 'that' picture?
Posted : 26 Dec, 2012 12:15 PM

I come to a 'Christian' dating site seeking a woman to marry who loves God and when I get here I have to fend my eyes off, not only terrible ungodly ads but your picture with your top mostly exposed and the assault of your body shape tempting men, who have indwelling sin, to think things that I ought not to about you.



Praise God for every woman who chose not to put up 'that' picture or any for that matter. Did Isaac ever see his wife before marrying? Did Rebecca get a pic from the Servant before agreeing to marry Isaac? No.



The racy and revealing photos here only do one thing to truly godly men and that is cause them to scroll faster to the next profile. A woman who is fishing with her 'looks' will catch someone who is just 'looking'.



A little modesty goes a long way.



In Jesus Name



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Posted : 2 Jan, 2013 11:40 PM

Well, for one i wouldn't do that but i have to school with girls and from what i have seen, it has to come from somewhere, a longing for approval.



I guess if guys everywhere decided they did not want this, then the market would go down but the problem is that all that stuff sells alot there are lots of people waiting out there to get a hold of the latest picture of that nature and people everywhere are after the money,. (The end justifies the means!)

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Posted : 3 Jan, 2013 04:09 AM

Softball, If thy eye offends you pluck it out, if thy hand offends you cut it off.



We are all tempted for various reasons. The true sign of maturity is being honest with ones self and not hiding from it.



Being honest builds trust and security.



You will NOT find a man I say NOT that in not attracted to other women at some point. If they say that they are liers and cowards.



In this culture we live womens cloths and perfumes are designed to stimulate a mans senses.



I think you probally lack the maturity and strength to be in a honest relationship.

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Posted : 6 Jan, 2013 06:53 PM

Really difficult to follow who is addressing who here. Interesting comments though.

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Posted : 10 Jan, 2013 08:51 PM

Today I learned how to block all images from the site so I can actually enjoy not looking at 'that' picture anymore but still read profiles etc praise God! Beauty is vain. Lust of the eyes kills.



Peace in Christ our Lord.



Gary

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Posted : 10 Jan, 2013 09:34 PM

huh gary...are u a puritan?

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Posted : 10 Jan, 2013 09:37 PM

jz asking...:)

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Posted : 11 Jan, 2013 01:32 PM

"huh gary...are u a puritan?"



I don't know what a puritan is to tell you the truth. I just read and follow my bible daily in all matters affecting moral judgement.

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Posted : 12 Jan, 2013 03:36 PM

I agree with the women here...

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Posted : 25 Jan, 2013 11:24 AM

I am both mature and honest enough to be in a comitted relationship. Also, don't expect the person I'm in that relationship with not to notice other attractive women. Would however, take acception if while shopping for a wedding ring he was so overtaken with lust, he had to leave. As I said before, it would be another thing if she was being inappropiate with you, but your comment was that she was beautiful and smelled good. Got to imagine there are more than a few women that fit that category at your church too. Do you have to rush out of a service if she sits to close and she smells good? Just saying. Think there is a lot more going on there if it's that big of an issue for you.



I am thankful that we do not live in a society where we have to cover our entire body and heads. I'm not saying that I want to walk around half naked, but thank God there are tank tops as I live in an area where it's often 115 degrees in the summer. If my wearing a tank top puts some guy in a spin than all I can really say is that I feel sorry for him and more importantly for her.

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Posted : 26 Jan, 2013 03:47 AM

The women in my church dress modestly without cleavage showing. This woman was not dressed modestly in any way.



I guard my eyes from temptation by not viewing pornogrophy, turning the channel when a scene is erotic. When a magizine cover is alloring I turn my gaze but when a woman is standing smack in front of me I have no other option but leave.



What do you do to withstand temptation?



:peace:

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