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ChristianArtsy

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A Man's NEEDS
Posted : 6 Aug, 2013 11:47 AM

Maybe you've heard marriage ministries talk about the things husbands need as opposed to what they want. If so, you maybe be familiar with these. Provided you agree with this list (I did not write) in what order of importance would they appear in your opinion, or do you disagree, or there other needs? Does it matter?



The order is ALPHABETICAL ... and not my words...



ADMIRATION/RESPECT: (encouragement, appreciation, to be/show pride in him)



AN ATTRACTIVE SPOUSE (men appreciate the way a woman looks)



DOMESTIC SUPPORT (peace and quiet, a need for the spouse to take care of things)



RECREATIONAL COMPANIONSHIP ( having fun with his wife)



SEXUAL FULFILLMENT (in a sexual marriage, he must be satisfied)





Accordion to what I've heard and read, this would be the list of NEEDS for the women IN MARRIAGE, in order that I did not write.. Still deciding if I agree with the order of importance.



AFFECTION



CONVERSATION:



HONESTY AND OPENNESS



FINANCIAL SUPPORT



COMMITMENT TO FAMILY

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Cat4Christ777

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Posted : 18 Aug, 2013 10:38 PM

@DontHitThatMark



I never suggested men get married for sex, or for any reason. I merely pointed out MY own personal experiences.



All I said was one fiance, and 10-years later, a husband (different men) cheated on me. That's how I found out that neither one loved me, for you cannot love someone and then cheat on them.



Period. Please try reading things at face value instead of trying to put words into other people's mouths by adding to their words without their permission, OK?



Thanks.

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Posted : 19 Aug, 2013 05:25 AM

I understand, but I think the problem was that I did take it at face value, and either way, I wasn't necessarily disagreeing with you, I was just trying to bring some clarification because at face value, it did look to me like you were saying if a couple had sex before marriage, that it would be the only thing a man wanted and he wouldn't feel the need for marriage. Maybe you didn't mean every man, and that's fine, but the post doesn't say that. I do admit and apologize, it did strike a nerve for me and I reacted more than I should have.



:peace::peace:

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