Author	Thread: How do you let him down easy.........
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	How do you let him down easy......... Posted : 3 Oct, 2013 03:51 PM ......is my question women of God! To not get into any great detail, this is a wonderful, true man of God.....no doubt! We've only corresponded for a short time and haven't yet met personally. I've truly enjoyed our conversations. He has enormous potential in and for The Kingdom of God....sweetly saved and if things were different I'd probably run down the alter with him....... The problem is I'm sure that I'm not attracted to him, for my own reasons. I don't want to hurt his feelings, nor maybe, possibly miss an opportunity to have a wonderful man of God in my life, even if as just good friends! But girls you know when a man has interest in you(smile).......I know he would want to pursue a relationship that is more than just friends! HELP my sister's of God.....I just need a little sisterly advice! God bless. Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	How do you let him down easy......... Posted : 4 Oct, 2013 05:40 PM I want to thank everyone who's posted on this thread......the advice given has been invaluable and very much needed!! I want so much to do what's right, most importantly in God's eyes. I knew I would have to be honest with this man of God, but I also needed to hear it from others(smile)! Again thank you all so very much and in God's time, and in His way, everything will work out just fine! God bless you all!!! Post Reply
mcubed View Profile History	How do you let him down easy......... Posted : 6 Oct, 2013 05:58 PM �I want you in my life as a friend, but nothing more.� Simple, honest he can take it or leave it. If you�re not attracted, you�re not attracted. Doesn�t mean he�s not attractive just means doesn�t do it for you. I appreciate honesty, it may sting at first but not in the end. There is a Psalm that says wounds from a fried are sweeter than kisses from an enemy�. Post Reply
View Profile History	How do you let him down easy......... Posted : 7 Oct, 2013 08:26 PM That's not letting him down easy, mcubed, that's just letting him down. The key to letting someone down easy is to make them feel validated. Let him know everything you think and how you feel about him. If you want to be friends, then actually be a friend. Real friends are there for the other one when they're hurting, and struggling even if they're the reason for the hurt. Post Reply
View Profile History	How do you let him down easy......... Posted : 7 Oct, 2013 08:34 PM I'd also ask him how he feels or if he's okay, otherwise he'll just act like he's okay when he's really not and no good will come of that. Post Reply

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