Author	Thread: Multiple questions for you dear sis
sisygirl View Profile History	Multiple questions for you dear sis Posted : 19 Jan, 2014 07:00 AM Joy dear sis, You all that I have now. I've already lost two great friends here, Teach whom I'm not very sure what she meant by saying she's not gonna find what she's searching for in this dating site. It's like passing time partaking here I think. Now it's John no longer around. I too will be off line for about 2weeks or so, I have important assignments that need my undivided attention. Can I ask you pleeeeeeeeeaaaaaaase dear not to deactive your account too while i'm gone. That's the last thing I need when I get back here or i'll have no choice but to council my account unless new folks will be partaking on the forum without reacting to another when interacting. I've tried to come up with few questions for you (and any other lady who may wish to answer) so I keep you around while i'm gone. You don't have to answer them all at once since i'll only be writing back in 2weeks. Hope these questions will keep you thinking and writing until I return. I love you sis! Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	Multiple questions for you dear sis Posted : 11 Feb, 2014 10:50 AM Oh sisygirl, we're down to the wire with these thought provoking questions you've asked(smile)! Love, I am humbled that you've chosen me, with my limited wisdom, to share my thoughts and opinions here on CDFF! Thank you child of God for the honor! Now to your 5th question...."should a young, married coupled rush to start a family......", well it's no coincidence that you asked this question, with me actually having a personal example to share! One of my younger nephews just got married 2 years ago. His wife is wonderful, and they both have careers that are demanding. They had their first child last year, and though she has been a true blessing and gift from God to both hers and my families, I have already witnessed the mild toll having an addition to their young lives and marriage so soon, has taken! Now for them I felt instinctively that they probably could have waited a year or so, to enjoy themselves.......to enjoy an extended "honeymoon"(smile)! However they have adjusted very well, yet I still felt that because they were still so young, they could have waited a little longer before having children......just this old girls opinion(smile)! Now of course there are exceptions to the rule......there has obviously been a lot of young couples who have not been as fortunate and their marriages were put under a great deal of stress and strain! I just personally feel that a decision of such importance, to have a child added to a new marriage, should be prayed and discussed about, extensively! Though in reality, if The Lord desires for a joyful gift from heaven, to be born in His time to a young couple, there's really not much that can be done(smile)! Who ever had, as parents, a hand book of instructions on when and how to start a family(smile)!!!? It all somehow works itself out......though I choose to believe whether you are a believer or not, with God's love and guidance! Hope this helps my sister! Be blessed! Until then.......... Post Reply
View Profile History	Multiple questions for you dear sis Posted : 11 Feb, 2014 11:29 AM Sis i think that you make your choices but as the bible says: man makes plans but God chooses what to keep and what to let go. I think it's a bit like that, you choose someone and pray for God's will to be done. Everything starts being friends then if the person wants more and if you're tempted then you pray about it. It's my point of view sis :D. Love you Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Multiple questions for you dear sis Posted : 12 Feb, 2014 04:49 AM 'Getting off on a wrong foot' Joy May the great Lord bless you sis for time taken in searching His word and coming with answers that are more biblically based. I didn't know those verses if I should be honest. And they gonna help me deal with arguments better from now moving forth. I think that, the way you answered this question is inline with the first question, 'Beauty with purpose.' The way you've answered this question reflects what you said about a young lady representing the heavenly kingdom with behavior and how she interacts with others. :applause: As if that wasn't enough, you added by saying the following: "Having a disagreement with anyone, much less a love interest, has to be governed by the same rules, laws and principles God has already put in place thru and in His word Sometimes it just takes looking at the big picture in a situation, to do a small thing.....like simply saying "let's agree to disagree or that I'm sorry!" Wow! Well answered, thank you! I won't spoil this by adding or subtracting anything you've share... Thank you big sis! Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Multiple questions for you dear sis Posted : 12 Feb, 2014 10:32 PM Joy I fully agree with your reply for question number5. Kids are a gift from God inspite of when we would rather having them. Some things we can help up to a certain limit, if God wills otherwise... Things are gonna be as He wills them to be. And yes I also think a new young couple must enjoy their marriage with numerous honeymoons if possible with the intention of working on strengthening the relationship, not only with physical affection but in all possible ways including prayer and fasting until both parties feel ready for the challenge of having that extra responsibility that is surely gonna change the relation and compromise them certain privileges since more attention is gonna be given to the baby. This is were frustrations begin in marriages if the couple wasn't ready for such responsibility. You really have done a great job in answering these questions! Sand i'll be sending you inbox massages on your reply, can do with your help on a personal matter. Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	Multiple questions for you dear sis Posted : 16 Feb, 2014 09:22 PM My sister, my friend......question #6 gave me pause. My journey in Christ has and is still, incredible! But when The Lord took my sister home to be with Him in 2011, I think that was the most challenged my faith has been to date! She had been such an important person to and in my life.....well let's just say, if hadn't been for the goodness and mercy of The Lord, I would not have gotten thru that! It has been by His healing grace that I'm finally understanding that I can now focus on the time myself and my family had to love and share with her while she lived, then focus on how much we miss her, wanting her still to be here with us! Though it will only be 3 years this April, since her passing I can now say honestly that my trust, faith and love for The Lord, and the love of my family has been my saving grace! Be blessed my friend! Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Multiple questions for you dear sis Posted : 17 Feb, 2014 12:56 AM That must have been the most tough challenge you have ever gone through. I wasn't thinking of that when I asked you this question Joy or I wouldn't have asked sis. I must admit that I haven't really experienced the pain of losing a sibling to death. We're only separated in a sense of living too far from one other. Therefore I have no idea of how you must have felt losing your beloved sister. 3years is like yesterday. I think the memory of losing her is still new in your mind, you still recall everything that happened. Thank you so much for opening up and sharing such a personal encounter that you and your family had to go through. Praise and glory to God for your healing through His loving grace! Thanks for sharing sis Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Multiple questions for you dear sis Posted : 17 Feb, 2014 01:24 AM Was in a live chat yesterday. We had a small discussion about the 'multiple questions' Fellows think you answered the questions very well. You have peolpe who admire you here Joy, just thought i'll let you know :glow: Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	Multiple questions for you dear sis Posted : 18 Feb, 2014 07:40 AM Sisygirl.......my heart is humbled to hear when believers have understanding of mind and spirit with one another! Our experiences at sometime in this journey, can only reflect God's love for us and that He didn't leave us here without others to love and be loved by.......God's blessings to all those who've decided that Jesus is the answer! Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	Multiple questions for you dear sis Posted : 23 Feb, 2014 03:37 PM Well here we are sweetgirl........at the end of a journey that I must admit, I enjoyed wholeheartedly(smile)! I know however this is by no means "the end", but more likely the "beginning" of sharing our experiences, hopes and lives with each other and with others, I pray, for as long as God allows! Question #7......whoa! I don't even know where to start with that one!! Well lets just say that the one important component I learned from my first and only marriage, was that I thank God we sat down like two adults and TALKED!! When it was all said and done, we amicably came to the decision that we were not going to make it! We were young, inexperienced and married each other for all the wrong reasons! Now 24 years later, I would say that COMMUNCIATIONS is so at the top of the list of my "must have-to-do's", to have a successful marriage! I thank God that I He called me as His own after my divorce, so I can now biblically and morally, move forward to marrying the true love of my life(smile)! Come to think of it, I now understand too......NEVER, EVER settle on making a decision of such grave importance to how you "feel"! You'll ultimately regret it and you'll discover that not checking with God, He'll just simply let you live with that decision in His "permissive will", not His "perfect will"! But He'll never leave you nor forsake you! What a mighty and awesome God we serve! Bless you my sister.....I'm looking to dive into life with you soon again! Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Multiple questions for you dear sis Posted : 24 Feb, 2014 11:16 PM "I know however this is by no means the end" It surely isn't sis, though I must admit that I realized recently that I asked a lot from you through these questions and felt a little bad about it. Hearing you saying that you enjoyed our interaction kinda puts me at easy. "....We were young, inexperienced" Things could have been that way, though you guys had your own sense of maturity. A peaceful divorce/breaking up says a lot about those involved in that relationship. You talking about it closed the door of enmity and hatred which is most likely to take place in most couples. People talk about their exe's as if they didn't wake up on a same bed every morning. Which leads me to another question that I won't ask dear sis as I've already said that i've asked a lot from you through these question, unless you feel comfortable taking this a little further with one more question inspired by your reply. If you'd rather not,... You're still welcome dear. I understand. Words to express gratitude for your openness and willingness to partake on this haven't been formed yet. Only God knows how thankful am I. May He never cease to bless you. Post Reply

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