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Am I allowed to be honest?
Posted : 30 May, 2018 03:14 PM

Can any lady please tell me why when I tell a female I look on the inside for beauty they don't believe me? I honestly want someone who is Beautiful on the inside they think it's a lie. When she has a positive personality she always looks Beautiful. Whoever she might be. Hey we all have our flaws lord knows I have mine. Lol. So why do I have to miss out on a possibly good thing because you think I'm lying about what I find attractive?

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Posted : 2 Jun, 2018 01:23 PM

Thanks I appreciate you!

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Posted : 2 Jun, 2018 01:28 PM

So good! Thank you for that conformation!

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Posted : 2 Jun, 2018 01:39 PM

Thanks for your reply. I definitely agree. If a guy was to tell a female he was interested in right at the beginning that he doesn't see looks it might not sound believable. I wouldn't do it without provocation.

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Posted : 5 Jul, 2018 12:33 AM

Well you said yourself that when you've said this to women you've not had a positive response. So my question to you is why do you continue to do it ? I think a womans self esteem would have to be very low, to be flattered by a man saying I don't find you attractive, but that's ok I'm looking for inner beauty...

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Posted : 7 Jul, 2018 08:02 PM

I agree jayzee and laughed

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Posted : 9 Jul, 2018 08:23 AM

I'd like to hear some replies to that one, myself. In my experience, I see women comparing themselves with other women. That is a death blow to a relationship. JEALOUSY is bound to come leaking out.

Ladies, you stand (or fall) with WHO YOU ARE, as a person. And as this fellow has already said, who you are can easily trump the body you live in. I can make "allowances" on looks, if the personality and heart are there.

On the flips side, I've found that women who really are good looking, are a pain in the back side. They are single because they were someone else's thorn in the flesh. Nice to look at, but HELL to live with.

So please, ladies, just be yourself. If the "magic" is there, it will leak out. Let the man you're with, be the judge. Forget comparisons. They only lead to a road that goes DOWN HILL.

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Posted : 27 Aug, 2018 12:09 AM

Personally I don't like that line. Whether it's truthful or not. It hints that you don't appreciate my outter beauty. If you wanna compliment her personality do it but don't tell her it doesn't matter what she looks like. Just remind her she was made in God's image. That's what makes her beautiful.

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Posted : 27 Aug, 2018 05:05 AM

Outer beauty to me is worthless. So long as one takes care of themselves and is hethly I could not care less about what one looks like.

If a woman is upset by that Id not want to pursue a relationship with them. Chances are there also shallow, materialistic and worldly if they get upset by someone wanting something more then the flesh in a relationship.

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Posted : 27 Aug, 2018 05:07 AM

Outer beauty to me is worthless. So long as one takes care of themselves and is hethly I could not care less about what one looks like.

If a woman is upset by that Id not want to pursue a relationship with them. Chances are there also shallow, materialistic and worldly if they get upset by someone wanting something more then the flesh in a relationship.

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Posted : 7 Sep, 2018 07:48 PM

I want a guy to be completely honest with me. I believe that it is very vital to any friendship or relationship of any sort. I appreciate it when guys tell me that my character matters to them more than my physical looks. I don't want to be lusted after, however I do think that it is nice to get compliments on my looks. I don't look at a man's body so much as I do character. The first person I fell in love with, I had no physical attraction to at first. When I started getting to know him, then the attraction came slowly.

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