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rbj66 View Profile History	Should the man reach out first? Posted : 13 May, 2025 02:17 AM Is it me or have women gotten weird? 🤔😄. Coming from Mars of course. A woman views a man, should he say hi? I try to wait until they reach out first but i can be socially contagious and people stereotype me differently anyways. I had one woman send a wink who was not too far away, and i said we should have a coffee sometime. She shot back she wanted to take it slow 🤔. Okay. So that was too fast 🙄? Just talk here then. Don't send a wink if you don't want dialogue, right? I don't think it was me that time Post Reply
LittleDavid View Profile History	Should the man reach out first? Posted : 14 May, 2025 12:08 PM I’m sure the great abortion chamber Planned Parenthood appreciates your commitment to posting good things about them. How can you, supposedly a Christian, post good things about Planned Parenthood⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️ Not only that, but you even post pro-abortion talking points‼️‼️‼️ You should be ashamed‼️‼️ Post Reply
Rebecca_S View Profile History	Should the man reach out first? Posted : 14 May, 2025 01:07 PM Well.. we (women) are different in so many ways. I'll share my two cents, hoping I understood your post. "A woman views a man, should he say hi?" If you're also interested, by all means, please do.. like me, perhaps she isn't well versed in initiating contact. There's also the possibility of an accidental profile click while browsing profiles - happens with me sometimes. The wink - how long did you talk before you offered her coffee? Could be the case of 'I like him, but you can't be too careful these days'. As you said, too soon maybe. Or as someone commented earlier, they could just want something that's generally online. Post Reply
Rebecca_S View Profile History	Should the man reach out first? Posted : 14 May, 2025 01:08 PM Well.. we (women) are different in so many ways. I'll share my two cents, hoping I understood your post. "A woman views a man, should he say hi?" If you're also interested, by all means, please do.. like me, perhaps she isn't well versed in initiating contact. There's also the possibility of an accidental profile click while browsing profiles - happens with me sometimes. The wink - how long did you talk before you offered her coffee? Could be the case of 'I like him, but you can't be too careful these days'. As you said, too soon maybe. Or as someone commented earlier, they could just want something that's generally online. Post Reply
freetobe View Profile History	Should the man reach out first? Posted : 17 May, 2025 12:45 PM Lol, yes dating is weird these days! It does sound strange someone would wink then say "take it slow", but approach and speed are two different things. She wanted to show interest but also wanted you to know she plans on taking it slow (talk about speed, she put it out there very quickly though). I can only guess she does not want to be loved bombed, not that you were/would. It's hard getting past the online part of dating, much easier when you meet and can nuance their words. Post Reply
LittleDavid View Profile History	Should the man reach out first? Posted : 17 May, 2025 04:34 PM My 14 May, 2025 12:08 PM post about abortion was in response to moonlight’s previous accusations. Sorry for any misunderstanding Post Reply

rbj66 View Profile History	Should the man reach out first? Posted : 18 May, 2025 05:38 PM I really am looking for women's opinions here or i would post under "ssk a man" or maybe "ask a woman who identifies as a man" or maybe "ask a man who identifies as a woman" 🤔 Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Should the man reach out first? Posted : 19 May, 2025 04:49 AM LD Is ignorant he trolling to teach Bible to everyone and correct everyone . Still not realizing it's a Dating site. Or he doesn't care !! He's not a teacher!! Thinks it's his Free Podium. Ruins many conversations with others on this site. Including many my topics. Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Should the man reach out first? Posted : 19 May, 2025 04:57 AM I've dated online in person meets so I have experience most went very well . Paid only Dating Christian site. Most men in here don't bother with these Forums. Now more are becoming Paid memberships I can only view few men profiles. Rest are blocked out. I'm not dependent on this site for Dating! I'm a Poster for yrs ! Most Christian women leave posting because of ignorance of men attacking and degrading. Like ones coming on Ask a girl. Off topic. Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Should the man reach out first? Posted : 19 May, 2025 04:59 AM rbj66 I wish you the Best you seen like a decent man on here posting. Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Should the man reach out first? Posted : 19 May, 2025 06:38 AM I have reached out to men in Person I'm attracted to First! Many men are open to a woman doing that ! Online there's too many fakes and games on Free sites. Post Reply