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Is True Virginity important anymore?
Posted : 19 Jun, 2010 07:31 AM

Is true virginity important anymore?



True Virginity: "a woman who has not known a man" in the Biblical sense -like Rebekah for Isaac.



I understand that people make mistakes, and we ask for forgiveness, and like to redefine or re-categorize virginity into "second virginity" or "new creature" etc. This is not what the topic is about, so please stay on topic.



We do not need to know your past, just your opinion today. :waving:

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Posted : 21 Jun, 2010 07:04 AM

I absolutely believe that my girls need to wait until marriage. That is how I raised them...also to look for the same in a mate. It is not easy because of the times we're in but a solid foundation of who the Lord is to them helps, alot. Also, I spend alot of time mentoring, praying for them and trying to be a good example.

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Posted : 21 Jun, 2010 08:00 AM

I say that everyone should wait til marriage, however things happen and people respond/react to situations they are in and I realize that at my age ,26, the thought of me finding someone who has not a sexual relationship is narrowing tunnel of hope...and yet I'm okay with that. It comes down to as long as the women meant for me virgin or nonvirgin, with child or not, loves me and allows me to love her in return. I do feel however that in this world however it feels that virgins are criticized more than those who gave up their virignity prior to marriage. Make a note that I said that they GAVE up their virginity NOT that it was taken.

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Posted : 26 Jun, 2010 10:48 AM

yes, i think it is as important as standing "firm" in faith. why? because so many christians today lost it by choice even if they knew God forbade doing it outside marriage. sometimes christians also think that they can pick what commands hold on to (esp on issues about intimacy) in the bible according to what's appealing to them, without giving a second thought of God's original design for sex.



just to be clear, i am not judging them, esp those who stood short and had fallen. we can always appeal to God's grace and mercy. however, to those who are still "virgins" i hope they can hold on to it until their wedding night.



God bless!

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aurora846

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Posted : 3 Jul, 2010 09:35 PM

well, its important for me. I think if I save myself it would make me sad to find out the guy i want to marry has had 2 others before me.

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Posted : 13 Jul, 2010 06:27 AM

I would just like to say this...all have fall short...all have sinned...and to anyone who thinks they are above that is a heretic!! Yes virginity is important but so are many things that all of us cannot do all the time...that is why there was a Cross...this is why Christ did what he did so that we could be cleansed from our sins...heres the problem some people think after they are saved that they can do whatever they want!!! But to a real Christian they live as new creatures and repent...so in my case my whole life I did so many things wrong in fact I didnt even believe in God so I sinned all the time but now I am saved and I do live differently and thats what we are supposed to do...thats why the term "christian dating" is so bland because many people who claim to be christains still act like everybody else in the world and im fully aware this will not be popular among many but its the truth!!

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Posted : 20 Jul, 2010 03:55 AM

for me virginity is important for me..actually at my 20 of age I am still virgin cause I believe it's holy....And i thank God for making as what I am...I had been 2 boyfriend still I handle the relationship very well ..I give limitation the boy..And both of them respect me..So for now that's why I'm searching my future husband to be.I wilL give myself for them.Although I am a filipina but nowadays there are a lot of them are not virgin.....God bless us...

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Posted : 23 Jul, 2010 04:54 PM

I think virginity is very important, I am a virgin again and it's not so hard. I just feel that sex is just a motion when your not connected through God and marriage. I love song of songs because I feel it tells about how you search for the one and it shows the passion there can be when you do as God wants with sex through marriage.

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Posted : 23 Jul, 2010 06:39 PM

For me virginity is very important and a high dignity for women and a perfect gift after ur wedding. In the Bible virgins are always indicated for a woman. For example in the Bible instead of saying 7 women with lamps but it said 7 virgin girls with lamps. I treasure virginity and hoping that all 1st wedde women should be virgins.

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Posted : 1 Oct, 2010 10:51 PM

im a virgin so yes it is very very important to me, but i know its diff for a girl then a guy, but if he is that the biggest plus in my life

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Posted : 11 Dec, 2010 08:23 PM

Hi, I'm not sure where I am joining this thread but I wanted to throw in my two cents.

I'm almost 28 and I'm a virgin, I wear a purity ring. Has it always been easy? No. Has it always been important? Yes. The world will try to talk you into doing something, it will make it okay and lessen the guilt but nothing is worth giving away the gift God has given. Is one night with the wrong one worth not having that gift for the one God gave you.

You also asked about future generations, I am working at keeping my niece (I'm raising her) as pure as I can. Which is hard to do since she is in public school and everything is sexual. She told me the other day that some boy was a hottie (she is 7). I do not speak like that and the only place I know it can be is from school. I think we must grow up the generations in the ways of God and teach them as we want them to be.

....just my opinions....:glow:

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