Author	Thread: Don't you get offended?
Phoebe2 View Profile History	Don't you get offended? Posted : 25 Mar, 2011 06:32 AM I feel very disrespected when guys email me commenting on my photos only; Unfortunately, they are much more than those who would write me asking , or complimenting something I listed on my page. Any human being is a combination of mental, spiritual, and physical aspects. What if I am an attractive girl, but dumb; or pretty& smart, but of low spirit, would that be any good??! I just hate it when most men these days put that much of their attention on physical aspects, rather than Spiritual & inner beauty. Ladies, does it bother u too? Does it make u wonder what happened to the godly men? Post Reply
View Profile History	Don't you get offended? Posted : 26 Mar, 2011 10:50 PM If Dennis has ya' on his favorites, you must be special! Post Reply
Phoebe2 View Profile History	Don't you get offended? Posted : 27 Mar, 2011 03:42 AM Dennis, I know u haven't ; but the majority do. Post Reply
Phoebe2 View Profile History	Don't you get offended? Posted : 27 Mar, 2011 04:02 AM Well, thank u all for your comments, and sharing your views. @ Warrior, it's great to dig deeper and look for the inner beauty, yet, we all still need to like what we see somehow. Don't get me wrong, it's nice to have a compliment on how we look. But what we see today in the mirror isn�t gonna last forever. The balance is important. All I'm saying is that a person is much more beyond a picture; it doesn't reflect all he/she is. The words (beautiful, pretty) are way overdone by SOME men, and it's just annoying. In Him, Phoebe :glow: Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Don't you get offended? Posted : 27 Mar, 2011 05:48 AM I have had at least one person comment on my photos first thing. He went on and on about how lovely I was, how he couldn't quit looking at my pictures, how it seemed like I was having fun in all the pictures, etc. The amazing thing: I only had one picture up at the time (the heavily photoshopped close-up). He clearly hadn't looked at my profile carefully! That was an unusual case, though. Most guys I talk to on here don't mention my pictures. But then again, most of them don't mention my profile either. It's the craziest thing...they'll ask all sorts of questions that are answered in my profile (age, hair color, job, etc.) as if they never even looked at it! Sometimes I think guys click on the "Women online now" tab and just pick someone to chat with...without reading her profile first. Anyway, I don't exactly get offended when a guy mentions my pictures instead of my profile, but I would be less likely to take him seriously if it was clear that he ONLY looked at my pictures and didn't bother to read the profile. Post Reply
Phoebe2 View Profile History	Don't you get offended? Posted : 28 Mar, 2011 07:37 AM Pianogal, That proves my point; some guys are becoming extremely shallow. They focus on what's outside only, and even the slightest effort like taking a moment checking out your hair color, or your job isn�t willing to do?! This is much worse, I'm glad u're not offended. And, I agree they can�t be taken seriously. Post Reply
View Profile History	Don't you get offended? Posted : 28 Mar, 2011 03:37 PM Well some of the pig ugliest people I know have great personalities (I count myself in that bunch), and as you've mentioned, appearance changes over time. But... You only discover someone's personality through a lot of writing back and forth (a lot quicker if you meet them in person). You'll know instantly what they look like though! Post Reply
View Profile History	Don't you get offended? Posted : 28 Mar, 2011 04:06 PM Haha, dkj255. You're not really ugly. (Just thought I'd chime in with that.) Post Reply
View Profile History	Don't you get offended? Posted : 29 Mar, 2011 11:56 PM Well here's a question then? Would girls consider it shallow if a guy knows what body type and certain facial features that he likes? AND even though he may click on a picture because he knows what he is looking (Which by the way if you click on the "My Matches" all you have is pictures), BUT only messages her based on what is in the profile has and what they might have in common. ALSO, the message would be specifically about the profile or things they have common and nothing would be said about how they look. Would that be considered shallow or balanced? I also think that the statement above applies to girls and guys. Post Reply
View Profile History	Don't you get offended? Posted : 30 Mar, 2011 12:50 PM @msmarvel: Not *really* ugly - just a little, LOL! Post Reply

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