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Why do women on here not usually write the guy first?Posted : 30 Dec, 2008 11:33 PMI know in society men are supposed to be the dominent ones but still sometimes I wish if a woman was interested she'd let me know. |
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CJGroove
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Why do women on here not usually write the guy first?Posted : 12 Feb, 2009 02:49 PMI like your response. I am not sure why women think that giving a guy a wink or an email is chasing. It is just showing interest. There is nothing wrong with that. Once he knows you are interested, then let him do the chasing. But, don't run too far ahead in the chase or he may never catch up. And do not hide. Otherwise he may never find you...lol. |
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DontHitThatMark
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Why do women on here not usually write the guy first?Posted : 9 Mar, 2009 09:14 AMWhen you see someone in person there is usually a lot of eye contact/body language that goes on...that's what tells me when a girl is interested. Online...is a bit different. When I see that a girl has viewed my profile it doesn't give me any confidence that she is interested at all, and doesn't give me much to go on...so when you say you want guys to lead, I don't know about other guys...but I need to know you're at least interested in wanting me to, otherwise I just feel pushy...and I'm not. A good leader isn't pushy, right? HELP! |
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Why do women on here not usually write the guy first?Posted : 1 Jun, 2009 06:41 PMI just never know what to say. But I bet most men feel that way to. That's why I'm glad I'm a lady, I can leave it to the men! Sorry guys, it's the lot youv'e been given. |
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Why do women on here not usually write the guy first?Posted : 10 Jun, 2009 04:44 PMWell, I would hesistate to contact the man first so that I wouldn't appear desperate or overeager. However, I have contacted a few just to say hello, and some men don't even send a polite "I'm not interested" message. That's rude, and I guess that's another reason not to contact first - fear of rejection. |
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Why do women on here not usually write the guy first?Posted : 1 Jul, 2009 11:49 AM:rolleyes:GOOD QUESTION! |
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Why do women on here not usually write the guy first?Posted : 18 Jul, 2009 10:45 AMI have to say...Who care? I could care less if the man I contact to say, "hello" does not reply...better to weed out the flakes as soon as possible is my theory.It leaves more time to get to know the sincere, kind-spirited ones. And they can be few and far between, but I am sure the ladies already know that. :)~ But when you find one, a really good one, it is all soooooo worth it! God bless us all in our search :) |
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Why do women on here not usually write the guy first?Posted : 18 Jul, 2009 10:47 AM* who cares? |
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Why do women on here not usually write the guy first?Posted : 23 Aug, 2009 06:28 PMI guess this is an old post, but I was just reading it. I like what you wrote, "kels". |
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Why do women on here not usually write the guy first?Posted : 23 Aug, 2009 06:40 PMJust one more thought - to me, anyway, it seems more hurtful to respond and say "not interested", than to not respond. I think I'd rather have someone not respond to me. I understand the message. Maybe I'm wrong, or it depends on how a person feels. That's just how it seems to me. |
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Why do women on here not usually write the guy first?Posted : 31 Aug, 2009 10:10 AMSome are afraid of rejection or being judged. |
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