Author	Thread: Curvy
Tulip89 View Profile History	Curvy Posted : 21 Aug, 2010 06:28 AM While Brandon's trying to figure out what "girl next door" means, I would like to know what the heck "curvy" is supposed to mean. Not block shaped? Post Reply
View Profile History	Curvy Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 03:54 AM And, Rabbit, aren't you the one on here who said a few months back that the women on here should wear their hair up in their pictures, because when their hair is down, you have a difficult time determining if her face is too fat for you? And you don't want to waste time traveling to visit a woman who you thought had a thin face but actually has a fat face... You don't think that's a bit of an extreme reaction? I understand that you have preferences, but you could just state them in your profile rather than hopping onto the forum and suggesting that all of the women on here alter themselves or the way they pose in order to suit your whims. Post Reply
View Profile History	Curvy Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 04:05 AM Yes, it was you. And you also told ladies on here to not wear dark clothing because that might hide things. Seriously, you may as well just ask for measurements, Rabbit. If the difference b/w how a woman looks wearing light clothing v. dark clothing is going to be deal-breaker for you, then be that specific in your profile. Post Reply
View Profile History	Curvy Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 06:31 AM Yes, Brandon. Happy and healthy. "Attraction" is elusive and differs from person to person. As I think these posts have shown clearly. A healthy body image is far more important than trying to fit a media image. Please note I mean that for BOTH men and women. Blessings, everyone!! Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	Curvy Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 07:05 AM Tulip, no, dont look for balloons lol but I think you know what I meant. Curvy just means she is proportioned... top and bottom, instead of straight all the way around. was that better?????? Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Curvy Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 08:26 AM @Pixy I would agree that a relarionship based on pure physical attraction is bad Why does it seem that only part of what I say is cherry picked, and than quoted back to me. If I recall correctly I stated those things to help women not portray themselves in a manner they in real life they are not. Because a person can cast themselves is such a favorable light that it creates a false illusion. Im sure evryone knows how it feels to get something other than what they expected. Post Reply
View Profile History	Curvy Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 12:59 PM @Rabbit- Because body image is something I struggle with. To be perfectly honest, I used to have an eating disorder, and while I'm pretty much recovered now, I fight a daily battle to see my physical self through God's eyes and not through the eyes of this world. So, when I come on here and see this continual stream of posts giving women "helpful hints" about their bodies and photos, it just makes my struggle that much more difficult. I'm not telling you to change your preferences, but you shouldn't be posting all this stuff "encouraging" all women to look more like your preference. If you would truly be that bothered by someone who appears 10-20 pounds heavier in person than in her photo on here w/ her wearing dark clothing and with her hair around her face, than that's your problem, not hers. And that is something you need to work out w/ the individual women you speak to. While I agree that it's deceptive to inaccurately portray your body on here, it is also deceptive to inaccurately portray who you are. So, I think it is just as deceptive of you to say that it's not about weight for you and that you're just looking for a sweet girl, etc. Weight is obviously a huge issue for you, and obviously a deal-breaker for you. So, rather than trying to graciously let down girls who you've been communicating with because now you've seen a photo of them where they look a little heavier than you thought, be fair and state your weight requirements up front. This would like if I signed up on secular dating site and didn't advertise that I was only interested in a Christian man, and then started talking to a non-Christian man, made sure I got his emotions all involved, and then decided to let him down when it later became clear that he wasn't a Christian. Believe me, if you indicate in your profile that you're not looking for someone who is overweight, anyone who is even 5 pounds overweight will probably not contact you. You can even post one of those charts in your profile with the healthy weight ranges and BMI for each height just to make sure that women know what you mean by overweight. And I'm sure you'll get exactly what you want: a skinny piece of flesh to share your life with. Post Reply
View Profile History	Curvy Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 03:23 PM @riveroflife1: Then what's voluptuous? lol Post Reply
View Profile History	Curvy Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 03:45 PM Maybe voluptuous means that she's top heavy? Like curvy, but even more filled out in the chest area? Like maybe the point where she has difficulty finding the correct sized undergarment because the band sizes for her cup size are all just a little too big? That point where people start asking her at the supermarket where she got her chest done at and how much it cost... ?? Post Reply
View Profile History	Curvy Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 07:57 PM Brandon - google it. It might help you define the parameters. I would not characterize it the same way as Pixy. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Curvy Posted : 25 Aug, 2010 02:00 AM @Pixy I am truly sorry that you struggle. All I am really saying is: Be you, and don't hide it, I would say. men who initiate contact are attracted to you physically, as well as for other reasons. Just because I find a woman attractive doesn't mean I will pursue her. Men are attracted physically to women for various reasons, and they differ from man to man. My suggestions were just that, suggestions. Women on here do what they like. I�m of no authority. The rest I will send via email, because I�m not going to treat you as you did me. Post Reply

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