Author	Thread: Long distance Loove/r'tionships.
Jhaymillz View Profile History	Long distance Loove/r'tionships. Posted : 17 May, 2011 10:04 AM So ladies,would u like to be in a relationship with a man,in a different country,state or city?And what part will u play to keep ur relationship?Thank u 4 reading and may GOD be wit u in all ur righteous doings,AMEN!:peace: Post Reply
Nkatty View Profile History	Long distance Loove/r'tionships. Posted : 17 May, 2011 10:39 AM I hav never been in a long distance relationship....while on here i give preference to guys who are frm my country an esp where i live....thats just me though!! Post Reply
View Profile History	Long distance Loove/r'tionships. Posted : 17 May, 2011 02:58 PM I don�t look at all for a man in my own country. I lived in USA in the year 1997 to 2004 but I was going ill and needed to return to my homeland. Now do I want to move back to USA and try to find a man in USA because I can�t move on my own because of lack of money. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Long distance Loove/r'tionships. Posted : 17 May, 2011 03:11 PM Different country -- No. There are are lot of issues/difficulties/problems/risks that come with that and I'm not at a point where I am willing to try to overcome them. Also, I'm not interested in moving out of the USA, and I'm not interested in helping him move here. Different state -- Possibly. I'm not looking for a long-distance relationship, but the surrounding states aren't that far away, and it might work if he's willing to do a good bit of the traveling early in the relationship. The farthest I would want to consider (if we met online) would be about a day's drive. If we met in person and got to know each other, and THEN one of us moved or already lived far away forcing the relationship to become a long-distance one, that would be a whole different situation. Different city -- I sure hope so! My city has about, oh, I'd say a whole couple hundred occupants! Of course, just down the road is a decent-sized city...and a couple hours away is Atlanta! Joking aside, yes, I'd certainly consider someone from a different city. Post Reply
View Profile History	Long distance Loove/r'tionships. Posted : 17 May, 2011 04:08 PM I think if you are really looking to find someone that would be not just a "good" match for you, but a "great" match, it is a great idea to expand you search. You may not find your soulmate in your state, but you may in one of the 49 other states!:peace: Good luck with your searches folks, and may God bless and guide you. Post Reply
View Profile History	Long distance Loove/r'tionships. Posted : 17 May, 2011 04:40 PM Would I date someone outside of my city, yes. State: Possibly. Country: more than likely not. While I'm not exactly opposed to date someone from another country, it is, like BC stated, harder to establish a relationship and maintain it, do to the distances. Post Reply
View Profile History	Long distance Loove/r'tionships. Posted : 19 May, 2011 10:51 AM I've had two significant LDR's over the years and both relationships were not what they looked like until later, I can say this because it is now later. There is no way to examine the information a person shares on the internet, and personally what saved me from making a horrible mistake was prayer. Both relationships were stopped after I had prayed about specifics with the Lord and both times I am ever grateful for God's answer. The first relationship wanted me to fly to him and meet his parents, family and home. It turned out he wasn't divorced but separated. Second man flew here (central US) and invited me to drive (3 hours) to Chicago for one night with him while he spoke at a convention, he knew for at least six months that he would be speaking in Chicago and he didn't tell me until the night he got here. We all know what that one night idea was all about. This second man was a preacher. Anyway in retrospect I am happy I don't approach any LDR without discerment and wisdom, and always with prayer. Post Reply
View Profile History	Long distance Loove/r'tionships. Posted : 19 May, 2011 04:59 PM I met a man in Texas over Internet in 1997 and I travel to him later on and we marry so it can work. But he wasn�t a nice man with women behind my back and much drinking and drugs sometimes but it was before I was saved so it was o.k. to divorce him. Post Reply
View Profile History	Long distance Loove/r'tionships. Posted : 19 May, 2011 05:23 PM To add to my earlier posting... For me after all is said and done my LDR's were about him gaining citizenship for him and his family and the other was something I wasn't interested in which was settling for less than what God had intented for me. Both men were highly educated. Both men claimed Christianity. And neither man was honest with me on their intentions. I thank the Lord I did not cross the line of who I am in Christ at anytime with either man. Post Reply
View Profile History	Long distance Loove/r'tionships. Posted : 22 May, 2011 04:26 PM I have lived in USA for all together 6 years. I am not in to find a man for to could come to USA, I need love too. I have already a SSN # in USA and I am a Pastor in USA because a Bishop have ordained me. I am multi gifted so I have no problems to earn money. Once have I only left Sweden and walked as an homeless in USA. I could have make it in USA if I had my own place but I never got my own home so I could start my business. I have so much to give a man in USA but I never get a chance because all those rumors that all foreigner wanted to come to USA for the money they could make in USA. I want to move to USA to a man that love me and I him and we should work together for the same goal in life. I will not be there for the money I will be there for to heal people and tell them what God is saying today to His own people. Post Reply