Author	Thread: How has a message to be to get a reply from you, girls?
Admin	How has a message to be to get a reply from you, girls? Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 08:15 AM Hi, there. I'm sending messages to a girl but she's not responding. she reads my messages, but doesn't answer. And I keep thinking what I should do to get a reply. Am I doing things wrongly? I don't know. For those who are thinking to say she's not interested, let me tell you I've already thought that. The fact is that she does not answer anything, she didn't say she's not interested in me, and she didn't say she is, also. Help me understand it, please. Give me advices on how I could attract her attention.... Thank you so much. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	How has a message to be to get a reply from you, girls? Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 12:39 PM Well, I know you've already thought of this, but she's probably just not interested. Yeah, it would be nice if she'd reply and TELL you that she's not interested, but it would seem that in many cases "no answer = not interested". I'd suggest that you move on. By the way, how many messages have you sent her? Post Reply
View Profile History	How has a message to be to get a reply from you, girls? Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 12:45 PM Thanks 4 your reply. I also think I should move on, but I can't take her out of my mind. Is not the fact she reads my messages a positive point? I mean, shouldn't I be hopeful? I've sent her about 6 or 7 messages. I think I'll only stop messaging her if she says she's not interested. Thanks Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	How has a message to be to get a reply from you, girls? Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 12:59 PM I'm about to send you a message. Post Reply
View Profile History	How has a message to be to get a reply from you, girls? Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 01:03 PM I don't think you can delete unread messages. So, no, not exactly a positive. Gotta find a way to move on. Sorry. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	How has a message to be to get a reply from you, girls? Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 01:03 PM Or not. I'm 3 years too old to message you. I'll just have to say it here, I guess: PLEASE stop sending the poor girl messages. If she ever planned on answering your first one, she probably won't answer it now for fear that you are the stalker-type of guy. At this point, you are only hurting your chances with her by sending her more messages. In fact, if I were that girl, I'd probably be getting close to blocking you. It doesn't matter how great you are, how great your messages are, or how much you think you want to get to know this girl. You can't force her (or any other girl) to answer. You are only hurting yourself more by trying. Take a deep breath, learn from this, and move on. Post Reply
View Profile History	How has a message to be to get a reply from you, girls? Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 01:29 PM lol ok, normally that persistence would get you blocked, but my guess is that this girl gets so many messages, she can't keep track of any of this jibber jabber :MrT: I'm sure her time on this site is coming to an end. Post Reply
Statie View Profile History	How has a message to be to get a reply from you, girls? Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 02:29 PM I don't take the time to respond to all the messages I get either. However, the ones I find of interest I do. Don't you think if she had an interest she would respond to you? Common sense would dictate if she writes you back she has an interest in getting to know you. Anything other than that-- is a bust my friend. Post Reply
View Profile History	How has a message to be to get a reply from you, girls? Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 03:03 PM @OP: The odds are stacked against you and all men in general, even here. Look at most women's profiles and see how many are on other's favourites lists. Now look at your own or some of the other guys. If she hasn't replied then that IS a response - she's not interested, leave her alone. Keep pestering her is just proof she was right to ignore you. Or maybe she just likes the attention and doesn't want to talk to anyone. In which case, you're better off without. Time to move on, buddy - your infatuation isn't doing you any favours... Post Reply
View Profile History	How has a message to be to get a reply from you, girls? Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 03:17 PM Okay, maybe I phrased my answer a little harshly - sorry if so. I've read your profile and you're relatively young, and if I may be so presumptious, probably inexperienced in this. My advice to you at this moment would be to: a) Forget this girl who won't answer - you're not getting anywhere with her and she's distracting your attention and efforts searching for other possible matches. Don't lose sight of the goal, young man, the devil tried to get Jesus to settle for less than his purpose too! b) Time build character (or probably more correctly, rounds off the sharp edges). These things cannot be rushed and you're gaining experience each time. I know you've probably got a vision of your perfect partner, but don't forget it'll take them time to get there just the same as for you. You want someone who can sing for example: maybe they can but don't realise or believe it yet, or maybe they will in a few years once they've had some lessons. You see the point I'm trying to make on this? Good luck seeking and don't let rejections and no replies discourage you! Post Reply
View Profile History	How has a message to be to get a reply from you, girls? Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 04:16 PM Sometimes you just have to send a Hello. And, you can get a response. Unfortunately, some women do not reply to ALL messages that they read. I do not know Why. I am suprised too she didn't just Block you already. Sorry. Post Reply

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