Author	Thread: Location
Admin	Location Posted : 17 Mar, 2012 09:46 AM How important is location to you when starting to talk to a guy on here? Yes I know there is a section where you say willing to relocate, yes, no, possibly...I get that. When someone sends you a message and they are a decent distance do you tend to move on and end it before it really starts? I'm just curious and would like to know what you think! :) Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Location Posted : 17 Mar, 2012 08:42 PM Location is pretty important to me, as I don't really want to move far away from where I live right now. My job is here, and my family and friends are here. I'm not saying I would write a guy off immediately if he doesn't live near me, but distance IS something I take into consideration. Even if I didn't mind moving away, it's just easier to actually date people who live nearby. I'm more willing to take a chance on someone if he lives close enough to actually meet within a reasonable time frame. That way if we don't click in person, neither of us has wasted a lot of time and money on traveling to meet the other person. It also keeps us from creating fantasy relationships online...even though they aren't "real" relationships, they can be painful to end. Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	Location Posted : 21 Mar, 2012 05:39 PM It's not all that important to me. As long as he's in the country, that's good enough for me. Can't fornicate that way. Point blank period! An additional benefit, is actually getting to know somebody on the inside first. If it becomes really serious and marriage is imminent, I'll just move, or vice versa. Good question Shawon. Post Reply
KristenJJ View Profile History	Location Posted : 27 Mar, 2012 08:57 PM Location is not all that important to me. If I read your profile and I'm interested in you, or if you send me a message I'm more than willing to get to know you no matter the miles between us. I would never want to miss out on something God has in store because of distance. In my mind, no matter what happens...if it moved into a more serious relationship and I traveled and/or eventually relocated; or if it did not work out.. you never know what the Lord has planned. You may be brought into someone's life because you both have something to offer one another even if it isn't the relationship you are ultimately hoped for. (Or you could meet the one you've been searching for and have that person to share your life with.) I am not going to dismiss someone because they live far away from me. Post Reply
View Profile History	Location Posted : 30 Mar, 2012 12:01 AM I can see both sides to the location thing. If you're in the same location it makes it easier to get to know each other better and date and such. However, if you're separate, it would help you too see who they are on the inside before you see the outside. Post Reply