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The question all men hate to answer
Posted : 18 Jul, 2012 04:45 PM

Ladies,



When you ask us " Do you think that I am fat?" (or something along those lines), what is the best way for us guys to answer?



The times that I have been confronted with this question, I never felt like I got the answer right. :laugh:



Thanks in advance for your feedback ladies.

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Posted : 18 Jul, 2012 10:17 PM

Of course we want you to say absolutely not even if it is a big lie but being Christian that wouldn't be right so we have no right to ask such a question unless we want the absolute truth. Maybe you could say something like I don't answer questions like that. Or I love you just the way you are. You're my one and only and always will be no matter what.

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Posted : 18 Jul, 2012 10:17 PM

Of course we want you to say absolutely not even if it is a big lie but being Christian that wouldn't be right so we have no right to ask such a question unless we want the absolute truth. Maybe you could say something like I don't answer questions like that. Or I love you just the way you are. You're my one and only and always will be no matter what.

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Posted : 18 Jul, 2012 10:45 PM

But are you comfortable with her size? Not a big deal to you? Then maybe you will say : what you are now is fine with me (just don't gain anymore, lol!), if you want to slim down / lose some lbs. we could walk together regularly� or whatever healthy activities you are supportive.

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Posted : 18 Jul, 2012 11:50 PM

Nothing's better than an honest answer to me. If I am fat,say I am fat! No big deal. I wouldn't stand anyone who can't say or face facts. Of course! There's always a nice and practical way of saying it like...you are fat,and so what?I like you just the way you are (you mean what you say).or something like we can work on it together etc. People think differently, I just gave my opinion. Its who and what I really am:)

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Posted : 19 Jul, 2012 09:48 AM

A Christian man should always tell the Lady the truth. If he thinks she is fat, say so in a nice way. Then it would be best for Him to move on to a slim lady, cause many women are fat and that is the way it is. I am not fat. But if I loose weight it is for me, not to attract any man. lol

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Posted : 19 Jul, 2012 10:30 AM

Just be honest! Yes or No. I mean she asked and the least you could do is be honest. If you said yes, may be she could do something (may be loose a few Kg) if necessary but don't push her to do this, in other words loosing weight should be her initiative not yours...But if she doesn't then i guess you may have to find a positive way to deal with it.

Everyone has their definition of fat but just make sure you use your definition of fat not what you think someone else would say.

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Posted : 20 Jul, 2012 03:29 PM

The times that I have been confronted with this question, I never felt like I got the answer right.



*** Its diffinatly a loaded question...:laugh:...Depends on what "Mood" the gal is in when she asks such a question...:rolleyes:...



I agree with the Gal that shared...maybe say..."I dont answer questions like that"...and follow it up with...I dont know why you would ask such a question...you are "Beautiful" just as God created you...Hint...Hint...many women have never been told and desire to be that they are "Beautiful"...Best of "Luck" to ya Bob and all the Gents with this one...xo

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Posted : 20 Jul, 2012 09:13 PM

Never say yes to that question... you will end up in the doghouse. Being in the doghouse is no fun. If I was asked that question... I would say I love you just the way you are.... it a cliche but it works.

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Posted : 21 Jul, 2012 08:02 AM

The problem lies with anyone asking this question.

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Posted : 21 Jul, 2012 09:38 PM

Bob... There are still girls who likes to hear yes for yes, no for no. And I'm sure some of the ladies would agree with me.

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