Author	Thread: Would you date this guy?
Admin	Would you date this guy? Posted : 22 Jul, 2012 11:28 PM Since Exceeding asked the guys, i figured it would be a good question to ask the ladies too. Would you date a guy whose marital status reads SEPARATED yet they are looking for MARRIAGE? Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 23 Jul, 2012 12:55 AM No, and I'd wish he'd work it out with his wife, because that's pretty saddening. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 23 Jul, 2012 09:10 AM No I also put no Separate men on my Profile. Every Christian site I been on there are several Separated men on there. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 23 Jul, 2012 01:53 PM I know it's "Ask a Girl", but if I can give an opinion from personal history. My ex ran off with another man, was pregnant with his baby, and wearing an engagement ring. This was while our divorce was going through court. Some things just don't work out. Now it is, IMHO, very disrespectful to be dating while separated. We may be over the relationship, but is the other party? That's just like salted lemon juice in an open wound. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 23 Jul, 2012 02:56 PM Would you date a guy whose marital status reads SEPARATED yet they are looking for MARRIAGE? *** NO !!!...to Separated and/or Single....I will break bread...have coffee...talk with both...Date ???...NO !!!...xo Post Reply
teach_ib View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 23 Jul, 2012 06:14 PM Definitely not date someone who is separated...I won't even meet them for coffee, lunch, etc so as not to give the appearance of dating. I agree that many who are separated are already in the 'not reconcilable' state where the divorce may be almost complete...but in the eyes of the court they're still married. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 23 Jul, 2012 06:37 PM A lady at church has been separated for 8 yrs now, and she is a Christian her husband non-Christian. I assumed she doesnt want a divorce and he wont get it either. Yet they are separated for years and he has a girlfriend whenever. Some women feel if they go out for coffee with a man, that is a date. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 25 Jul, 2012 05:34 AM I call this the DUH factor. People dont realise if they are going to do this with someone else they are going to do this with us. Its a issue of integrity or lack of. Even us divorced people we tell our stories about how bad our spouse was and how great we were and someone buys it hook line and sinker. No personal accountibility any more. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 25 Jul, 2012 08:09 AM Anyone announcing that they are separated should not even be allowed to be on this site for dating purposes. The truth be known I have dated someone who was separated by default. He told me he was divorced, I believed him and dated him for a small time but by God' grace I found out when I searched the internet by googling his name and the area he was from. I have a United States court website on my computer that I am able to punch a person's name into and as long as I have accurate information about this person I am able to obtain their entire record from the court system. He was not divorced but separated. He has a criminal record that was two pages long. I ended the possible relationship as soon as I had this information... Post Reply
KiwiMav View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 26 Jul, 2012 03:58 PM No. I would not date a lady who was separated. I have a friend who was eager to get married and it turned out the guy who was 'separated' turned out to not be separated at all. When answer this I was thinking that would be a rule of thumb, but GOd is sovereign. But I find it hard to image that God would lead me to do it. FOr instance if she was abandoned - then you can legally get the marriage dissolved. But then I really want to be involved in that process either. THere is always hope. Post Reply
Mercymay View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 29 Jul, 2012 07:39 PM I knew one guy who was separated from his wife for years but have not filed divorce yet maybe he hoped to mend the relationship. His wife got his own place and took care of one kid, he got his own place also and took care of the other kid. They come together on holidays. They are friends communicating as two parents although as couple they are not anymore. After meeting some friends with potential on here, he filed for divorce and now is married. His regret is that he stayed separated for five years. So I guess there really are separated guys on here who need friends first to finally decide to move on. Post Reply

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