Author	Thread: Dating a divorced man
Admin	Dating a divorced man Posted : 8 Aug, 2012 09:45 AM How many ladies have had dates off of this site? If so are the guys serious or just dating? I've not had any real date but several contacts most of my contacts are already dating someone and or just getting to know different women. However, they have seeking marriage on their Profile. I had a guy that was very nice but divorced only 1yr after being married for 26 years. His wife left him for another man. Then he had to pay her Alomony he said. Now he will have to date for about 2 years cause he couldn't afford to support a New wife. lol So, I had to move On. lol He lived in another State and would have to Travel to make a Long distance relationship work out. He had very good position as a Teacher. Often times many divorced people on these Sites has issues with Past marriages, Alomony, debts, child support on and on. Why cannt men and woman just stay married it would be Less Costly. :laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	Dating a divorced man Posted : 8 Aug, 2012 05:23 PM Most people marry for lust without nurturing true love in respect. The counterfiet doesn't last and the amount of divorced people on this website prove my point. I'm too new here this time therefore I have met no one thus far. I live in an area where there are very few eligible males let alone Christian. Post Reply
View Profile History	Dating a divorced man Posted : 8 Aug, 2012 07:10 PM You make a very good point touched twice. Lust is one major cause for couples marrying. Even on these Christian sites Lust is Ranging. Every time I meet a nice guy Online he believes in Premarital sex. Unfortunately, I do not plan to start a relationship off like that. lol I too live in a Rural area compared to some women in large cities, who have opportunities to meet many men. Post Reply
View Profile History	Dating a divorced man Posted : 10 Aug, 2012 05:36 AM I think we marry not really knowing what love really looks like. The media shows us a skewed version of love that is not love at all and we follow that model. There are less and less good models of love except for the bible. No matter why a couple marries if they are christian they really have no excuse to divorce. If Man or a woman followed the model of Love provided in the bible then their love would never fail, right? Me personally i married my first wife out of guilt and fear. But through the years I stayed commited to her and our marriage and was determined to learn how to love according to biblical principles. Today she is in a lost relationship and I am preparing to marry a great lady where my efforts to learn love is giving me great success in our relationship. My love for faiths77 is natural and free flowing because the Spirit in me has brought me to a place where He works through me in wisdom and understanding. Whenever we have a dissagreement or fight in my leadership we work together on understanding oneanother. This is something anyone can learn if they want to. But sadly all i see is unforgiveness and finger pointing. I see people not really interested in listening. Listening is key in a successful relationship. And to let you know the only passage that reffers to marriage says that a widdow can marry and unmarried woman or virgin can marry and a husband who was loosed from a wife can marry and not be sinning. In His service, Michael Post Reply
View Profile History	Dating a divorced man Posted : 11 Aug, 2012 10:17 AM It would be really unfortunate if people only stayed married because of money and marital baggage. A life-time of misery is not worth any amount of money. Furthermore, if a couple has children, they would be passing on these marital lessons and the chance for this to perpetuate from generation to generation would only increase. Divorce isn't always the answer, but sometimes it's necessary. =( Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	Dating a divorced man Posted : 11 Aug, 2012 11:25 AM Actually, divorce is not necessary except in cases of fornication with someone other that your spouse or in cases of abandonment. If you are making each other miserable, then it is time to redidicate yourselves and your marriage. Get counseling. Obviously there was something about the other person you loved, or else, you would not have married in the first place. What was once there can be salvaged. Post Reply
View Profile History	Dating a divorced man Posted : 11 Aug, 2012 12:11 PM Yes, according to the bible adultery is the only grounds for divorce. This scenario contained that element though, hence, divorce is sometimes necessary. Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	Dating a divorced man Posted : 11 Aug, 2012 12:19 PM In that case, I'll agree. Post Reply
share1033 View Profile History	Dating a divorced man Posted : 11 Aug, 2012 06:52 PM Yes and "Christian men" can comit adultery also. Post Reply
Looking4someonereal View Profile History	Dating a divorced man Posted : 11 Aug, 2012 09:29 PM Also almost 18 years of physical, mental, verbal and emotional abuse to the wife and children as well is no reason to stay married.....and yearly counseling didn't help this marriage.... Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	Dating a divorced man Posted : 11 Aug, 2012 11:24 PM Chances are, if he was mentally, physically, and emotionally abusing you, he also committed adultery. Post Reply

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