Author	Thread: Asking Women Out IRL
Admin	Asking Women Out IRL Posted : 11 Sep, 2012 07:24 PM I was wondering if you could explain how it should go down when a guy asks a woman out in real life? I used to think I knew but now think I don't know anything any more. Where do you expect us to approach? When? How? Etc... Post Reply
View Profile History	Asking Women Out IRL Posted : 11 Sep, 2012 07:27 PM Also how do you know when she wants to be asked out and when she just wants an ego boost from shooting guys down? Post Reply
MacDonough View Profile History	Asking Women Out IRL Posted : 12 Sep, 2012 12:18 AM Perhaps I am naive, but I do believe there are that many girls out there who just can't wait to be asked out so they have the chance to say no, perhaps embarass him. If a girl was like that, and told you no, it should not affect you one way or the other since you will be honest with her either way. How she is should not change your own integrity. because you were willing to find out if a girl was like that or not, then the answer could be yes she does want to know you. Then build on that friendship. no need to be fearful of what she 'might' do. Post Reply
View Profile History	Asking Women Out IRL Posted : 12 Sep, 2012 12:43 AM I can't speak for every woman, but personally for me...I'd rather the man just came up to me and told me how he felt for me, or what he saw in me that made him want to approach me and ask me. Maybe say what caught your eye about her, or if you saw something in her character, demeanor of way of speaking. Not to flatter, but every woman wants to sort of know why you chose to talk to her. Above all, let the Lord lead your heart, ask for favor and he will give you favor. Post Reply
View Profile History	Asking Women Out IRL Posted : 12 Sep, 2012 12:48 AM As for where: Alone, not in front of a posse of your best friends. How: Be forward and intent, honest, but not pushy, pushy drives us crazy. When: Pray, and ask. When there's a good moment, when she's relaxed and just talking. Post Reply
NRSV1953 View Profile History	Asking Women Out IRL Posted : 12 Sep, 2012 05:09 AM Hey IODC! How ya been? Nice to see you posting again! (from your ex-cheerleader auntie!) Post Reply
View Profile History	Asking Women Out IRL Posted : 12 Sep, 2012 01:25 PM Ask her out when she is alone, and tell her why you want to go out with her. Be upfront and honest. I like that, not into flattery any man can do that and not mean any of it. lol Post Reply
View Profile History	Asking Women Out IRL Posted : 12 Sep, 2012 08:31 PM :waving: Hey NSRV. Been wicked busy and see this site is pretty useless so I'm not on as much as I used to, but still pop in every now and again. Post Reply
marianna34 View Profile History	Asking Women Out IRL Posted : 27 Sep, 2012 05:36 AM A woman can tell the difference between flattery and sincerity.If you think she is smart,please do tell her,but don't go overboard. If she has been blessed with beauty,she probably heard it before and she won't be impressed. Try to pick up on something that is not so obvious and let her know you've noticed. Use one of her qualities and tell her,use it to your advantage to stand out from the crowd. Post Reply