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Admin	Truth about this site is... Posted : 4 Oct, 2012 07:04 AM I think of leaving this site forever, All attractive woman on here are so bombarded with mail from every guy A to Z you turn out to be just another guy she doesn't have time to respond to.Then you have those from foreign countries trying to get green cards, that's about 95% of most mens mail on here I'm certain. Finally you have the live chat that are full of regulars who know each other by 1st name and make small talk everyday, they aren't there to find someone but those who are will spend 5min in live chat and leave. The avg # per room is about 10 to 20 ppl.....my question is .....is this site even really legit or is it full of scammers, people looking for citizenship, and fake bot profiles that just aren't real? Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	Truth about this site is... Posted : 4 Oct, 2012 07:20 AM So, you only message a woman if she is attractive? I guess only supermodels deserve to be happy and find love. If we live to be 90, God willing, we all look like prunes. It is not the outside that matters, brother, but the inside. How do you think those people in the live chat got to know each other? They kept talking. I have talked to several foreign women. Most of them did not want to live in the US. The US is too immoral according to them. They preferred their own country. Most of the foreign women on here are from the Philippines. I know a little about the RP. I know it is much cheaper to live there. Why do you think so many filipinas have such high age limits. First, they think about what is in the guy's heart. They want someone who will love them and treat them with respect. Also, they know that if their "future husband" is near retirement age, they can remain the the Philippines. A decent income, for those working there, is about $500-$700 a month. In their money, it is about 21,000-29,000 piso a month. Many retired Americans make double that. A million dollar home in the US, would be about 1/6 the cost there. Not all foreign women are looking for a visa. Post Reply
View Profile History	Truth about this site is... Posted : 4 Oct, 2012 07:33 AM Who said anything about super models? That's a bit of spin on words, for me some attraction has to be there and attraction comes in many forms! You know various personalities are attractive also. Yes i also know most foreign women here are filipino and they are delightful but due to the fact that many of them are looking to marry for financial gain as you stated is not my thing, nor is helping someone relocate by marriage . Post Reply
marianna34 View Profile History	Truth about this site is... Posted : 4 Oct, 2012 11:48 AM No one said nothing about supermodels,but you did start your conversation stating that all the attractive women are bombarded with mail from guys from A-Z,so the way I understand it,just like I am sure apostelle did too,is that unless they are very beautiful,you will not take a second look. Do you even read the profiles or just not bother if she is not physically your type? There is much more to a relationship that looks,which will eventually fade. As for the foreign ladies,well,I am one and I'm not looking for a green card If you stay long enough in the chat rooms,you too will get to know some brothers and sisters. Just make yourself available and you'll make friends and/or meet someone who is suitable for you. God bless you. Post Reply
View Profile History	Truth about this site is... Posted : 4 Oct, 2012 12:05 PM There is nothing wrong with a person wanted to be attracted to the person that they marry. You all should quit with the holier than thou attitudes. Post Reply
View Profile History	Truth about this site is... Posted : 4 Oct, 2012 01:11 PM Good point truth yes we do have that right and further more beauty is purely subjective, and I never said all foreign women look for green cards, but the majority do and I'll stick by that so unless u get mail from countless filipino women I'd say your opinion is somewhat watered down ladies. Post Reply
SOS4EMAILFRIEND View Profile History	Truth about this site is... Posted : 4 Oct, 2012 01:52 PM It takes time and patience to become acquainted on this site. As I see it, there are various ways to get in touch with people. First there is the hunting and chasing. You can view, wink, private and instant message your way to finding lady- perfectly- right-for me Then there is the chat forum. I found this a wonderful way of getting to know some people of the board. There are heavy forums and fun forums, allowing you to get deeper into topics and just spam away. And then there is the live chat. Amazingly, only the box for youngsters and 40+ is always loaded and yes, it is then somewhat difficult to cut in, although I must admit as soon as you log into those boxes, you are welcomed and invited to participate. Perhaps you need some panache to cut in, just barge in with something interesting and you will get response. Also the live chat boxes for prayer, bible study and advise are mostly empty. Perhaps you have the gift to breathe in some life over there. And then there is this complex about people being after a green card. I am foreign myself and I, nor any of my foreign friends on this site, are after a greencard. I have said it before, and will do so again. The situation in the U.S.A. is far from desireable. Apart from its perceived decadency brought about by Vegas and Hollywood, there is also the declining economic situation, the high rate of unemployment and the sensation that americans are the number one target for terroristic acts, beating even the Isrealians. No, if a foreign woman shows interest in you, you can believe that in general it is because of you and not because you can supply a greencard. I am not saying that this site is wonderful and without things to be improved but scammers, greencard chasers, unattentive chatters and busy attractive women you will find on all dating sites. I am not saying you should stay on this site but the picture that you are drawing about CDFF is not a fair one. :waving: Post Reply
View Profile History	Truth about this site is... Posted : 4 Oct, 2012 07:30 PM I've been on here over a year so yes it's been time. America is still free, our military and homeland security is the best in the world. Even in the economic state right now the avg american still lives lives more comfortably than a lot of countries. Americans lead the rest of the world follows! God made America THE super power...."IN GOD WE TRUST" is on our currency .......the greatest country in the world. No I'm not being unfair to CDFF facts are facts! Post Reply
View Profile History	Truth about this site is... Posted : 4 Oct, 2012 08:46 PM Patience and God's timing, so many are losing patience with the looking... So what will you do, just take anyone who comes along??? No, for that would not be Gods will for your life, and would not leave you not one bit happy or satisfied or able to go the distance.. It is hard to find just THE one,, to match up in body, mind and spirit.. For you may be attracted to someone yet they are NOT attracted to you. or vice versa, or you may have the attraction but the emotional connection is not there or even if those 2 line up the spiritual connection is not there.. All 3 have to line up.. Tedious and exhausting emotionally yes to both of those.. But, for those of us who have been yoked with someone we had no business yoking up with we can tell you it is a road you NEVER want to go down.. So as the Lord has said, WAIT UPON THE LORD!!! he knows best, and we are to continue to follow Mathew 7:7-8 (ask, seek, and knock) Post Reply
SOS4EMAILFRIEND View Profile History	Truth about this site is... Posted : 5 Oct, 2012 03:52 AM Well ZERO, thank you for sharing your eh.... 'insights' and be blessed on your path. :zzzz: Post Reply
SOS4EMAILFRIEND View Profile History	Truth about this site is... Posted : 5 Oct, 2012 04:53 AM Oeps.... a very unfortunate and totally unintended abreviation of your avatar/username zer01972. I did not at all mean how it might sound/read. I apologise for that, I should have been more careful. Post Reply

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