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Assurance in a relationship
Posted : 28 Jul, 2013 07:03 PM

Whta is the things that yyou would find the most challinging in a relationship with your partner, to feel you have assure that your doing the right thing with Him? I understand there could be many things that pop up...but what some challanges with women and what are somethinggs yall think yall could do to have that assurance?

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sisygirl

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Posted : 28 Jul, 2013 11:11 PM

Great question asked there hey....?



Wish I would partake in your post,

Haven't been in a relationship for too many years now, I believe I have grown up to be a different woman from the girl that I was back then. Issues that made me feel insecure then could be my strength now.



Suppose i'll just have to wait & hear what other ladies have to say.

That's a very interesting question.

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Posted : 29 Jul, 2013 01:20 AM

I think this depends on individuals.

There are ladies who will feel assured if you text and say how much you love them daily.

There are those who will be assured by your gifts.

You just need to learn what your person likes or makes them feel you really love them.

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Posted : 29 Jul, 2013 05:49 PM

Reminds me of a book I heard of called the five love languages...basically ties in with what you were sayin...to get maybe a little deeper into the question...does a women have total assurance that she adds up..based on the confirmation of her man...being happy and etc... or is there still room for insecurity apart from that and why I guess?

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Posted : 30 Jul, 2013 07:24 PM

Open, honest communication - discussions on any topic, even on those that each may have opposing or different views. No intimidation because of differing views...talk it through...multiple times if necessary.

Spending time together...if he always wants to be somewhere else or with others, it's not healthy. Not to say he can't have some independent activities, but they shouldn't outweigh time with his partner. That includes those workaholics.

Respect for life experiences and knowledge...sometimes the woman will be more knowledgable about some areas...it's ok. If she knows how to change a tire and you don't, listen to her.

Understanding each others love languages and personality traits is important to appreciating each other. God made us all unique so often we respond to the same thing differently...neither is right or wrong.

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Posted : 8 Aug, 2013 05:56 PM

" to feel you have assure that your doing the right thing with Him?



That's funny you posted it that way because my first thought was what assurance do I have that HE is doing the right thing whit me!?!

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