Author	Thread: Women want men to listen to them, rather then fix their problems
Admin	Women want men to listen to them, rather then fix their problems Posted : 11 Aug, 2013 11:53 AM Is that true, that you want a man to listen to you..rather than offer a solution? Post Reply
teach_ib View Profile History	Women want men to listen to them, rather then fix their problems Posted : 11 Aug, 2013 12:19 PM Well listen to the whole story before trying to fix it...realize that usually there's probably a lot left unsaid if you jump to a solution. show empathy...ask questions... Post Reply
ChristianArtsy View Profile History	Women want men to listen to them, rather then fix their problems Posted : 11 Aug, 2013 02:11 PM I agree >> teach, much like ministering to someone whose hurting. More damage can be done when don't do the things you've listed. Post Reply
View Profile History	Women want men to listen to them, rather then fix their problems Posted : 11 Aug, 2013 07:41 PM @ teach...defintly agree..and alot of men maybe need to be more involved and concerned... but do you thhink its more of a comfort yall seek... than an actual solution? Post Reply
andr5550 View Profile History	Women want men to listen to them, rather then fix their problems Posted : 12 Aug, 2013 08:26 PM I would agree with this, often we just need someone to listen to us, not fix us, sometimes we just need to say it out load and usually we can come up with our own idea, we just need someone there to be the sounding board. We don't always need fixed, just sit there and listen and give us a hug once we are done, if we want help we will usually ask. Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	Women want men to listen to them, rather then fix their problems Posted : 15 Aug, 2013 05:27 AM Yes its true,women need you guys to listen,show empathy,give a hug,wipe tears. Don't jump to solutions even before you listen to her,most of the time we have solutions. I don't mean your solutions don't matter but please listen. I agree with teach ib. Post Reply
mcubed View Profile History	Women want men to listen to them, rather then fix their problems Posted : 20 Aug, 2013 06:56 PM I have to sound like a girl and say it depends on the problem�lol but true� When I got divorced I went to see my ex-husband. It ended badly. I told my mom; she was soooo sympathetic. I told my dad; he said �what you expected� (true story)�. I realized if I want girl �stuff� go to a girl. If I want logic go to a guy. Post Reply