Author	Thread: About Honesty
Admin	About Honesty Posted : 9 Apr, 2014 12:45 PM Is it a bad idea to present all flaws and character defects right up front even if they make you look bad and you never get a chance to show the positive side of you? Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	About Honesty Posted : 9 Apr, 2014 02:04 PM Well my brother in my humble opinion, our flaws and shortcomings will be exposed whether at the onset of relating or during an actual courtship!! If we choose to hold back flaws to impress each other, it only prolongs the inevitable. The maturity of parties involved would really determine if looking pass the flaws and focusing more on each others positive attributes, hopefully encouraging the possibility of a serious commitment! It seems that once in a committed relationship, there will be plenty of time to virtually "let your hair down", confident with the love you have for each other and comfortable in each others presence! "For better and for worse".........that should be important before, during and after committing to one another! Be blessed in your search. Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	About Honesty Posted : 9 Apr, 2014 07:20 PM That's a very good question LadeIID I've been wondering what must it really take for one to finally take that risky step of coming out and put your flobs on the table? How does one know if the bond is now strong enough not to break after you've made known your short comings, coz either way they gonna show up as Joy said. It may only be a question of time That's a good one dear brother... Looking forth in hearing what the ladies have to say on this Post Reply
View Profile History	About Honesty Posted : 15 Apr, 2014 07:03 AM Is it a bad idea to be too honest about yourself? I am new to this dating thing....any dating thing....and am just learning how to interact with others. I want to keep honesty and God in the center......but, is it too much to truly be honest about some particular struggle till you get to know the other person a lot better? Post Reply
View Profile History	About Honesty Posted : 18 Apr, 2014 12:27 PM Love what you had to say on this matter sister. I think its best to be totally candid. I am to an expert at being me. Its when I am trying to play a role that is not me that the trouble begins. Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	About Honesty Posted : 23 Apr, 2014 01:23 AM Honesty is very important in a relationship. When you meet someone just be you and you won't need to think what to show and what not to. Let the other person see you for who you are. Whaterver doesn't please you,just mention it,don't wait untill you are married then start accusing or trying to put things straight.It will never work. The earlier the other learns you the better.If they they can't put up with some things then they leave you early before you get very close, which may make it complicated. I hope it makes sense. Post Reply