Author Thread: What wrong with me
jasonwells1982

View Profile
History
What wrong with me
Posted : 25 Jul, 2014 07:39 PM

Dating sites ain't doing well women don't want to get to know me they just move along i'm a very nice guy and caring but i'm been waiting for a long time but no luck.

Post Reply

Magdalena80

View Profile
History
What wrong with me
Posted : 25 Jul, 2014 08:14 PM

You are not alone . Many of us are asking ourselves this everyday . An I believe it's some of the best people , that are single !!! My best friend's husband dictates everything , and she now lives through whatever he wants . Most women I know , are not really happy when it comes to the men in their life . An you know what some of them actually say to me , '' dpn't worry , you'llmeet somebody''. As if I am nobody until I do . When the truth is they only wish they had the self-respect & strength that I do to remain single because it's better than to be in a depressing situation like them .I am not willing to exist & settle , sacrificing my health , becoming miserable within , just for the sake of having a someone .I am a firm believer in positive thinking & feelings . Stop seeing single life as your enemy , because it's not !!! It does have it's pro's , and you can be more comfortable with your reality & accept what is . Remember , there are many of us , there are many of us in the same boat . The only creeps that bother with me are sick users, (free-loaders), frauds, etc . So yes , being alone is best for me . Never be with an abuser , just because you fear being alone !!! Being alone allows you to learn more about who you are , and is good for us .





I would suggest you look at your position as an advantage !!! You have your pick , so-to-say........ :-) An in the time being , enjoy yourself !!! It has a lot to do with our frame of mind . :waving: I hope I could bring a little encouragement your way !!!

Post Reply

Magdalena80

View Profile
History
What wrong with me
Posted : 25 Jul, 2014 08:16 PM

Sorry for the spelling errors , I meant to say ''don't worry , you'll meet someone'' .





It's late , I am tired :zzzz: Please excuse any mistakes in my response .

Post Reply

CuriousGeorge

View Profile
History
What wrong with me
Posted : 25 Jul, 2014 09:18 PM

relax man. online dating doesn't work

Post Reply

Tatita

View Profile
History
What wrong with me
Posted : 4 Aug, 2014 06:56 AM

Oou, come on, Curious George!! Some people have know they "soul mate" on relationship sites - even married!!



It depends of God willing!! :yay:

Post Reply



View Profile
History
What wrong with me
Posted : 4 Aug, 2014 09:09 AM

Its not you brother but the nature of the BEAST.

The percentage of people finding a spouse on one of these sites has got to be somewhere around 1% if even that! Ive heard very few success stories and Ive been around along time wondering the halls of dating sites. Its not you,its designed to be this way. Satan wants to devour you brother.Pretty good way to get at single people huh? All under one roof, all wanting to fill that void?



How many people on these types of sites actually have the "go ahead" from Yahwah ? Do you think God desires for all to be married? remarried again and again?



Do your research as to who runs these kinda sites,it will surprise you! "Christian" is an attractive TAG: LABEL.

Besides that,its so easy to lie and deceive online.



Your odds would be better walking around with a sign"marry me" in the produce section of the grocery store. :laugh:

Join some of your local "meetup" groups (meetup.com) or make a christian Bible Studying group of your own.



Blessings brother.:purpleangel:

Post Reply

happyjer2911

View Profile
History
What wrong with me
Posted : 4 Aug, 2014 02:37 PM

I would say to respond the other writing. If you put time into writing people on the forums, I believe you will have better luck. I know two guys that found wives off this site... Still married after 3 years. And very happy. Don't give up... :dancingp:

Post Reply

flyby

View Profile
History
What wrong with me
Posted : 4 Aug, 2014 07:28 PM

Hang in there and have fun with it.



Take it from me "walking around with a sign"marry me" in the produce section" doesn't work, it only gets ya kicked out and that's a real bummer when its the only grocery store in town. ;~)

Post Reply