Author	Thread: Why women prefer younger men?
here4us View Profile History	Why women prefer younger men? Posted : 13 Nov, 2014 04:38 AM It is astonishing how many women, especially over 45, are looking for younger men. For some of them, the lowest age could refer to a son rather than to a husband! What actually is behind their mind? Post Reply
NRSV1953 View Profile History	Why women prefer younger men? Posted : 13 Nov, 2014 06:58 AM What makes you think that? As I don't read the women's profiles, do they actually say they are looking for younger men? Post Reply
View Profile History	Why women prefer younger men? Posted : 13 Nov, 2014 12:35 PM It's mainly because of how male and female libedo works over a lifetime. A woman peaks in her late thirties but has a generally lower level in her early twenties. A man peaks in his early twenties but has a generally lower level in his late thirties. This is why a young woman prefers older men but a older woman prefers younger men when it comes to sexuality, it has to do with libedo levels aligning. Post Reply
kirby216 View Profile History	Why women prefer younger men? Posted : 13 Nov, 2014 06:46 PM The libido peak age is a myth. I can't speak to other women, but I prefer men who are slightly younger than me. (by like 5 years). The last guy I dated was 10 years younger than me, but I didn't date him based on his age. It was about his maturity level. I've heard guys date younger women because they have less baggage. In a way, that's true for women too. Younger men are more likely to not be divorced or have kids. (I happen to be ok with those, but other women may not) Post Reply
View Profile History	Why women prefer younger men? Posted : 14 Nov, 2014 03:00 AM Sorry ur wrong on that one! I want an older man who is mature and can take care of me Ty!:) Post Reply
here4us View Profile History	Why women prefer younger men? Posted : 16 Nov, 2014 06:48 AM Dear NRSV1953 Just start looking at profiles! Sure it is not an academic survey and i refuse further investigations. Also i would be the last who would stop fighting for freedom of expression. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why women prefer younger men? Posted : 23 Nov, 2014 09:15 PM I'm not sure that what you say is true for women, but I KNOW it is for men. Mature men who are looking for teenagers, it sounds crazy, but they will always give you a "reason" for that. sometimes they have kids older than the little girls they look for. Do they want to marry a girl or raise her? Post Reply
exmilitarybrat View Profile History	Why women prefer younger men? Posted : 1 Dec, 2014 10:25 PM I personally had a great relationship with a man younger than I was. (Although I could go 10-12 years younger and 10-12 years older than I am; it depends on the person). On of the main reasons that a marriage with an older woman is a good idea, is because women outlive men by quite a bit. If a woman marries a man 15 years her senior, chances are very high she will be alone later in life for a good 20 years. If she marries someone 10-12 younger, the life spans will be closer. This is speaking in averages. Not every case of course. However, another reason is when I look around at my male friends, male family members, or my friend's husbands, starting in their 40s there is a much higher rate of men who just want to come home from work and do nothing else. Just watch TV. I don't need an adrenaline junky, always on the go, but I would like a man who has interests and likes to do things. That is why I did well with the younger fellow I was seeing, we were out doing things all the time and having great fun. I must say I have seen a whole bunch of men on this site in their 40s and 50s whose youngest age listed for women is 18! 18??!!! Post Reply
bigguy63 View Profile History	Why women prefer younger men? Posted : 16 Jan, 2015 09:46 AM They have been socialized by the culture that prevails in popular culture. The traditional ways are gone, even Christian women are victims of woman's lib. They date younger men because men have been doing it for centuries. 40 years ago it was not done, 40 years ago women didn't get tattoos, ride motorcycles, fight fires, smoke cigars, and so on. These were all male territories. So now we have women doing everything men have done forever. So now the negatives of being a man are affecting women. They are dying younger, getting sick more often, stressed out, injured more in accidents, neglecting their kids, losing limbs in wars, and being taken for a fool by a much younger romantic partner. My take is......ladies welcome to the boys club, its murder in here! As for me I will stick with the old ways, the double standards that apply specifically to gender. We were created different and so these male specific territories developed naturally based on men's superior strength, and women's superior nurturing. A woman is better off with a man who is older. I think maybe by up to 15 years or so. The reverse is never a good idea unless you want to live with him in his parents house. The economics, the maturity, the wisdom, stability, and protection of an older man is a win win for any younger lady. Sadly because women have been raised in this upside down culture, they are sold the lie that older men are not the best option anymore. So they pay the price, and so many double down with pride and keep beating their head against the wall thinking it has to work because they saw it in a movie. My advice, start thinking like a woman and forget these fairy tales you have been told, odds are it's not going to work. Of course if a man is a few years younger like 4 or 5 yrs the difference is negligible, but leave the 10 or 15 year swings to the natural order of how God created the dynamic of men and women. Boas is a great example in the Bible of how he praised Ruth for not seeking after the younger men. As for me I want a woman who thinks like a lady and seeks not to do all these traditionally male activities, most of which are idiotic male activities that destroy us. ie there was a time where society said women should not smoke cigarettes it was male territory, but don't tell someone they can't do something so now cigarettes are an equal opportunity killer. Don't follow what men do just to say your equal, think about how it will effect your life, and well being. Men your age or older are where you will find your blessing. Post Reply
LPNDOLL View Profile History	Why women prefer younger men? Posted : 9 Mar, 2015 04:29 PM I don't know about other women but for me it is a case of trying in my humanness to avoid going through a terminal illness with a third spouse. That being said I had originally set my lower limit at half the difference between my age and my son's age So my lower limit was 12 years younger. Unfortunately it seemed as though most of the men that age were hung up on age so I raised my lower limit to 10 years younger. There is also the feeling that if he is too young there is an ulterior motive behind his interest. This probably is more info than you wanted but I have the same issues with men my age who set their upper limit at 15 years or more younger than themselves. Blessings! Post Reply