Author	Thread: shallow
Admin	shallow Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 12:34 PM dear folks, you see this word alot associated with folks who wanna see a pic or even when folks may be looking for someone beautiful to them..as sayin my preference is to be attracted to them outwardly first off.. my question is this, if when you are choosing a potential mate ,if you really think they are beautiful to you and you not only use their attractiveness ,but yet you also look at their many other qualities both inward and their outward qualities that attract you.. does that still make you shallow ,even though you also look inward? an inqurin mind hehe ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	shallow Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 01:14 PM Cattleman shallow? No Way! I think we all look for something that attracts us, some may look at beauty, some personal hygene, some may like a biker look. petite, athletic, and so on. Your also looking at the inner qualities. The whole picture. So how can that make you shallow? But sometimes that inner beauty overrides the outer beauty of what you like. Do you then disreguard? I think I would call that shallow. Love7 Post Reply
InHisHonor View Profile History	shallow Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 02:18 PM Shallow is when a a person doesn't look past another's surface. They look at outward beauty instead of inner beauty. Now, lets say you are looking through the profiles and find a person you are attracted too. You click on their picture because of the way they look, this does not necessarily mean you are shallow. If you send them a message without reading about them, then yes you are shallow. Looks attract but its the mind that holds a person attention. Post Reply
View Profile History	shallow Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 02:51 PM HisHonor "nailed it"! That is exactly right. If you're just "scratching" around on the surface, you've got slim pickin's and you are being Shallow. Now, if something on the surface attracts you and you "dig" deeper and strike Gold and you also see that God's all around them...then Ureka! (What does Ureka mean?) Now you are being "Deep"! Ya Dig? "He ain't Heavy...he's Rush Limbaugh!" Smilin' Steve Post Reply
View Profile History	shallow Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 02:52 PM If you look inward, and seriously consider it, and not just outward ----- then absolutely not; you are not shallow. Of course we look at the outside. Unless you are blind or sight-impaired ----- everyone looks at the outside. If they say they don't I believe they are not speaking the truth. But most mature people get past that and, if they are seriously seeking someone, they spend time getting to know the inside of the person. I have known people who would be considered unattractive (men and women) and/or have facial disfigurments. Seriously -- after spending time when them I just didn't "see" those flaws anymore. Not shallow, cattleman. Post Reply
View Profile History	shallow Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 03:47 PM Shallow ?...No Sir...Nope ! There is diffinately more to Attraction than meets the Eyes...the 5 sences...sight, hearing, touch, smell an taste...its all good...but what ya feel in yer Heart...thats what tops it all...LOVE...xo Post Reply
View Profile History	shallow Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 06:55 PM No...what makes you shallow is when you see a photo you like and despite what the profile says, you message that person.:rolleyes: Post Reply
View Profile History	shallow Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 08:11 PM dear folks, thanks for answerin.. yawl have been very helpful.. and arch lol ureka.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	shallow Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 10:53 PM I've wondered if God didn't intend for us to be physically attracted to the opposite gender, because if He didn't, wouldn't we all look alike? Just my two cents, T Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	shallow Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 10:55 PM Great post Cattleman! Thank you! :applause: Post Reply
View Profile History	shallow Posted : 27 Feb, 2010 07:10 AM dear ky, thats an interisting observation.. dear grace, youre welcome ,hey i was beginning to get a shallow complex .. was a little worried bout my ole self.. now i dont feel that way.. thanks to everyone.. ole cattle Post Reply

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