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Are you serious?
Posted : 18 Jun, 2010 10:08 PM

I'm fairly new to this site and was wondering about the women on here. I genuinely read people's ad and write a message based on what I read but all I really get is a bunch of read messages but not one reply. Being that this is a free site are the women on here really serious about finding a real relationship or just here to play games. At this point I'm not really sure what to do.

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Posted : 18 Jun, 2010 10:26 PM

PM Welcome to the forums!:peace:

There can be a lot of reasons that people don't respond to a msg. Anything such as: them not liking your msg for any number of reasons, or they don't feel there is enough in common, or they may be thinking how to answer your msg. It could also be that they just don't want to.

There are a lot of people on here, both Christian and scammers, so take it slow and careful.

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Posted : 18 Jun, 2010 10:45 PM

Awww... I'm really sorry that you're having a less than ideal experience here. There are some wonderful ladies who participate in the forums, so perhaps you should spend some more time in this part of the site =) As far as not getting responses to message, I respond to all of mine usually... unless they're, um, inappropriate. Try not to worry about the women who won't respond and keep prayerfully searching for someone who is interested.

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Posted : 19 Jun, 2010 10:00 AM

I am not sure what that is all about. I too get read messages and no reply. I took it as people who weren't interested in me, and let it go. I don't think at least I hope people aren't here just for games! But if it brings you any comfort, it goes both ways. Not just the girls. Hang in there and good luck! :waving:

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Posted : 21 Jun, 2010 05:02 AM

Sorry about ur predicament!



Personally...wen someone sends me a message,i will read it first then go straight to their profile and read it!



So if i were in ur shoes...i would try and check out how i write my messages(It does matter!)....and most importantly check my profile....plus pictures(should be clear enough)....changing some things if possible.



Good luck.

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