Author	Thread: Hmm what stuff can a guy do to show confidence about himself in the eyes of a woman?
Admin	Hmm what stuff can a guy do to show confidence about himself in the eyes of a woman? Posted : 17 Aug, 2010 06:35 AM Ihave noticed that alot of women keep mentioning that they want a confident man to be an interest if thiers. The question is what can a guy do once he has the confidence, just that he is still learning on how to show that to people in all of his manners. (like good body posture, or wakling with a certain swagger, etc). Post Reply
SOS4EMAILFRIEND View Profile History	Hmm what stuff can a guy do to show confidence about himself in the eyes of a woman? Posted : 17 Aug, 2010 07:01 AM I believe that women will see in one moment whether a man IS confident or tries desperately to show confidence.... Be careful in adapting gestures and poses in order to impress. As soon as a woman finds out that your mature appearances are only external and not in harmony with your being, they will turn around and walk out. I see this forum flooded with questions of men who so desperately want to score and be succesfull. The question is not so much in catching a woman�s attention..... but to keep it. :waving::waving::waving: Post Reply
View Profile History	Hmm what stuff can a guy do to show confidence about himself in the eyes of a woman? Posted : 17 Aug, 2010 03:08 PM Some of those symptoms of insecurity that men seem to rail against in women I sometimes see in men as well, such as the fishing for compliments and/or the "so, what do you think of me?" line. A confident knows who he is and has well-formed and solid beliefs and opinions and isn't swayed from that by a pretty face. A confident man likes who he is and you can tell that kind of thing, even just by a few messages. I guess those are just a few of the things I pick up on. He also doesn't freak out and message again if a girl doesn't respond ASAP or if it shows she's read the message but doesn't respond right away. haha. Post Reply
View Profile History	Hmm what stuff can a guy do to show confidence about himself in the eyes of a woman? Posted : 17 Aug, 2010 03:43 PM lol, it would seem that I was somewhat misunderstood. I am more trying to get the whole different veiwpoint so that I can try and gage what I have been doing persay. As they say the only bad question is the unasked one. All in all just more curious then anything at a usually generalized statement that is posted so much on the forums. (jumps back behind his flameproof wall, and prepares smores) Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Hmm what stuff can a guy do to show confidence about himself in the eyes of a woman? Posted : 17 Aug, 2010 05:46 PM Posture is incredibly important when trying to come across as confident. I like to imagine I'm wearing a messenger bag when I walk. I've heard other guys say they imagine their chest is being pulled up by a string. Either way, you end up walking with better posture. When you sit, take up space. You're a man! You fill space! Don't be constantly fidgeting either. As far as your actions go, most a little bit slower, but very deliberately. Avoid hesitation in anything you do. If you think you want to pick up a stapler, pick up the stapler! If you think you want to talk to a girl, start talking to her. Eye contact is very important. You're better off holding it too long than breaking it too quickly. For more help, watch movies like Oceans 11, any James Bond, Transporter, etc. where they are just undeniably cool. Then do what they do. Within moral parameters, ask yourself what James Bond would do in a situation, and then do it. The more practice you get, the more natural it will be. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Hmm what stuff can a guy do to show confidence about himself in the eyes of a woman? Posted : 17 Aug, 2010 09:08 PM lol.....pretend to be cool? Yeah...they see right through that though... "Wait...James Bond did that in Goldfinger.....poser...." :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Hmm what stuff can a guy do to show confidence about himself in the eyes of a woman? Posted : 18 Aug, 2010 01:10 AM How do you shoot a basketball? If you follow the steps will you make it every single time? It's not what you do, it's how you do it and to take it one step further, the more natural the more likely the chances of success. Don't imitate anybody. Just be you and don't worry about what they want, what you think they want, or what other people think they want. Post Reply
View Profile History	Hmm what stuff can a guy do to show confidence about himself in the eyes of a woman? Posted : 18 Aug, 2010 01:39 AM The way I see it, it's a problem that naturally works itself out if we let it. Worrying about or focusing on skill or effort just gets in the way. For us guys, though, sometimes that's easier said than done. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Hmm what stuff can a guy do to show confidence about himself in the eyes of a woman? Posted : 18 Aug, 2010 07:00 AM Fake it til you make it. Sure a girl may see through you trying to look more confident, but it's going to get you a lot further than staring at her the whole night slumped over and wishing you could talk to her. Post Reply
View Profile History	Hmm what stuff can a guy do to show confidence about himself in the eyes of a woman? Posted : 18 Aug, 2010 08:41 AM lol Tulip :) I like your last statement man! that's kind of true. Easier said than done, though... Tell me, is 'overcoming your shyness' and approaching this said girl already a 'pose'????? where does the borderline lie? how to pretend you're a little bit more confident than you really are without making it a pathetic attempt? Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Hmm what stuff can a guy do to show confidence about himself in the eyes of a woman? Posted : 18 Aug, 2010 09:58 AM Anyway...there's a difference between mustering the courage to speak to a woman, and practicing to be cool on her. You don't practice with an air guitar until you can play the real thing. Pretending to have someone else's brand of cool doesn't work out very well, at least not in my opinion or from what I see. I guess it depends on what kind of cool you want. Do you want the kind where your own unique/original brand of character/personality win people over, or the kind where you change yourself into someone else? The people I think are cool are the ones who know who they are, they don't listen to what other people are doing. They have found themselves and they don't fear other people's opinions. :peace::peace: Post Reply

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