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DEEDEE72

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MUST HAVE/CAN'T STAND?
Posted : 26 Sep, 2010 07:52 PM

A friend suggested I try Eharmony. As a part of the process they give you a list of must haves and can't stands but they do not allow you to pick alot. I believe you get 3 of each to ensure you narrow down what is most important to you.



I know we all have a list of what he/she should be. We have some things that are really not that important but nice to have and some that are nonegotiable.



I know this is a Christain website and that is number 1 for all of us is they must be Christian and we can all talk about how that looks for us. After the fact that he/she is Christian...



What is 1 thing that you will not compromise on and 1 thing that although it is on your "list" you can admit you could take a him/her without it even though it has been on you "list" forever

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Posted : 27 Sep, 2010 11:20 AM

One thing I will not tolerate in a man that I marry is drinking. Alcoholism runs in my family, and I rather avoid that situation altogether.



Even though I rather marry someone who has never been married, if God has someone who has been married in the past for me, then I would marry him.

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Posted : 27 Sep, 2010 07:14 PM

Age is a dealbreaker for me. After the bad experiences I've had with younger men, I won't even consider dating anyone younger than me. I'm sure that not all younger men are like the ones I've had the misfortune of dating, and i'm sure there are older guys out there who are just as bad, but after the things I've been through it's sort of my policy.

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Posted : 27 Sep, 2010 08:22 PM

@Moon what kind of problems?

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Posted : 30 Sep, 2010 01:26 PM

I'd really like to find a woman who's a virgin. Even better I'd love to find a woman who has never kissed or anything with a guy. I just want someone who will fully submit herself to me, and I don't mean that like obey me, just love me and only me. I don't want someone who will have eyes for someone else.

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Posted : 30 Sep, 2010 01:30 PM

Oh yea and I can't stand a woman who smokes and drinks. I'd prefer a woman who dresses modestly too, like no clevage and stuff.

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Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 06:22 AM

wow i like ye comment bout this n i agree 100% wif u steve

i need somone who will love me for who im n mot have eyes for anyone else either

somone that will be my best freind n a lover n somone i can trust completley

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