Author	Thread: flirting.....
Admin	flirting..... Posted : 21 Oct, 2010 10:06 PM question, how is a good way to flirt with a christian girl without being too pushy... and what are some surefire ways to know she is into u as well?? been out of the dating world to long and i want a good christian woman... thanks...:waving: Post Reply
cmseeker10 View Profile History	flirting..... Posted : 22 Oct, 2010 07:25 AM Some women try so hard to hide their feelings for a guy by trying to be just friendly,but it's a good indication that you can talk more and see where it leads you both..There's another thread about knowing" Is she really in to you".Try to check and see what everybody said about it. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	flirting..... Posted : 22 Oct, 2010 09:01 AM The key to flirting is that you have to make sure it's playful and fun. If you don't have those key elements, you're guaranteed to come off as awkward or a tool. You know the classic movie scene where the uncool guy is at his locker, and the popular girl says something like, "Hey gorgeous," and he thinks she's talking to him, only to realize she's talking to her friend behind him? If he would have just confidently said, "Hey thanks! You aren't looking too bad yourself!" it would have been funny, and he wouldn't have been embarrassed. You can do pretty much anything you want to do as long as you do it playfully. Embrace your 5 year old kindergarten playground self. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	flirting..... Posted : 22 Oct, 2010 09:53 AM Unfortunately, some guys seem to flirt even if they AREN'T interested in a girl, so it's hard to say exactly how a guy should flirt. I have a friend who does that to me. He's interested in another girl (at least, he says he is, and she says she's interested in him too), yet he constantly does things and says things to me that I consider to be flirting. For example, a couple days ago, he tried to send a funny song to my cell phone as a "prank call" just about the time he knew I would be leaving work...he said he wanted to brighten up the end of my long day. I know he could have been doing it just as a friend, but it REALLY came across as flirting...yet he's supposedly not interested in me. He also likes to tease me in very flirtatious ways, he compliments my new pictures on Facebook, he makes a point of chatting with me regularly (usually on FB, but sometimes via phone more recently) even when he only has a few minutes of free time, etc. All things that I would expect from someone who is actually interested in me. So, those are ways that you could flirt with a girl you are interested in, but the bottom line is: be serious about your intentions and don't play with girls' feelings by flirting thoughtlessly. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	flirting..... Posted : 22 Oct, 2010 10:30 AM If they're interested in each other, then what the heck is taking so long? Post Reply
View Profile History	flirting..... Posted : 22 Oct, 2010 10:41 AM The problem with flirting as an indicator of whether someone is into you or not is that everyone has their own definition of what it means to flirt and of what level of interest it indicates. For example...to me, it is just light-hearted, teasing conversation...playful and fun as Tulip said. I've been accused of flirting when, in my mind, I was just being friendly. It is no real indication as to my level of interest in a man...or, when a man flirts with me, his level of interest in me. The most surefire way to know that a woman is into you is to ask her straight up...you'll either get yes, no, or we need to get to know each other better. Likewise, I don't assume a man is interested in me until he says so. A lot less confusion and misunderstandings that way. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	flirting..... Posted : 22 Oct, 2010 10:42 AM They might be interested in each other, but they are still in the "getting to know each other" stage...and they live an hour apart, so it's not like they see each other every day. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	flirting..... Posted : 22 Oct, 2010 01:15 PM I could start a club with this guy Post Reply
View Profile History	flirting..... Posted : 22 Oct, 2010 02:19 PM BC he is flirting with you.. at least thats how i see it.. Its not how you flirt that says you are into someone but what you say when you are NOT flirting that says SO much more.. just how I see it Post Reply
View Profile History	flirting..... Posted : 22 Oct, 2010 05:39 PM well, i seem to have found out what is NOT flirting so far, but me being a friendly guy I guess can put a spin on things that some people might misconcieve... i am not into games, but don't want it to be cut and dry because i like to make friends, but being in the "friend zone" too long can be a problem i guess....:waving: Post Reply