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Falling in love in Far Far Away Land.
Posted : 4 Nov, 2010 11:48 AM

question peoples. If you met someone who is like me from another country (i live inBarbados,you know, the caribbean country where Rhianna came from)and you met someone interesting on this site,But they live miles away,who do you think should make the right move,me or her?Talking to my bishop from my church earlier this year,i told him that i was looking for a lady friend within the next three years.He told me that who knows or somwhere else. Maybe she might even come from America!Of course,i am not rushing into anything since i know that the bible says in Luke ch.1vs.37 that nothing is impossible with God so i'm just asking this as a open discusstion because i even don't have apassport for now.But since of course,most or almost all of us have put "willing to relocate: it's possible,who knows" on this site.:glow:

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Posted : 4 Nov, 2010 12:33 PM

thanks for the veiws,but please somebody, respond!

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Posted : 4 Nov, 2010 04:09 PM

I am not sureI understand what you are asking...



how important is it for you to fall in love in a far far away land?



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Posted : 4 Nov, 2010 05:00 PM

To: Sosemailfriend,what i am saying of couse is that if someone you have met on this site & you both have something in common & you both message each other for a while now,you will love to meet in person.But sadly though if one of you may want to travel or even stay in the either ones' country , since the person obviously don't live next door or within a taxi or a bus area zone!The problem is who will want to move to whose country first (of course,i know this part can be easily sorted out through communicaton with the other, but they are obviously some sarfices to make (your job,maybe leaving behind friends& family,opportunities& goals in life etc). A tcket in my country cost near $2000 or$3000 bds ($1000& some thing us),the passport $200bds ($100us)& the visa cost about $200bds and if you don'get through the first,you have to start allover again (pay fresh $200bds again). Thank you so much for responding!!!

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Posted : 4 Nov, 2010 05:27 PM

Reply#3 toSOS:my apologies for giving some incorrect information.the ticket cost is for the planes to leave & to return back.

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Posted : 4 Nov, 2010 06:54 PM

I think it depends on the girl. I've already moved two States to be near my family -- I would not consider moving out of this State (or the US). But other ladies may not feel that way. If you expect someone (or want someone) to move where you are eventually -- then just be honest about it from the first few contacts so she will know what to expect.

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Posted : 4 Nov, 2010 06:57 PM

Hi there,

I can't speak for anyone else, but for me it comes down to God, family, and economics...in that order.



If God says one of us needs to move, that is that.

If my mom becomes unable to live alone, I have to stay in the US.

Who has a job that makes the most? Who can get a job in the other country?



So, if I fall in love with somewhere from another country, all this will be considered before anyone starts moving. But, I used to live in the Caribbean. For that move, I just loaded up my school bus and drove down. That was some drive. Obviously it was not to an island...but still, not that big of a deal.

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Posted : 4 Nov, 2010 10:37 PM

Rihanna is a hottie, why you should look for women from other countries then? Sorry off topic :goofball:



Anyhow, one thing for sure, if u are still unsure about she is the one God sent for you, I suggest do not fly there just to meet her. If you are already sure about it, then fly. If you still doubt, then don't. This will prevent all the heartaches of spending too much money of someone who will eventually break your heart (or vice versa).



My suggestion, fly to her on vacation, or work, so at least when things are not working, you do it for yourself, would feel less stupido :applause:



Permanently, it would be a decision between you and your partner =)

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Posted : 4 Nov, 2010 10:41 PM

And, if it is God's will, He will definitely make a way even when there seems to be no way :peace:

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Posted : 5 Nov, 2010 02:07 PM

thankyou ladies for your viws & opioi:glow::applause::applause::applause::applause::applause:ns!!!!!!!!!!!!

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