Author	Thread: What kind of man deserves your time?
Admin	What kind of man deserves your time? Posted : 10 Nov, 2010 11:42 AM What should a man be for you to want to be with him? Of course I'm asking this from a christian point of view but also on a personal level too I guess. I mean of course you don't want to be with a not on a log but you don't want to be with a spiritual one either. LOL. Post Reply
View Profile History	What kind of man deserves your time? Posted : 10 Nov, 2010 11:45 AM I can't spell today. I meant knot on a log. LOL. But yea, I guess I'm asking this because I feel a bit needy and I want to know what I should work on, etc before being invovled with a woman. What kind of things does she really expect from me as a christian man. I like to think I am a christian not only because I was raised christian but I truely feel in my heart I have aksed God for forgiveness for my sins. I admit my faults to him. I really do want to change but I admit I struggle with a lot. My soul is very troubled. Post Reply
marikashome View Profile History	What kind of man deserves your time? Posted : 10 Nov, 2010 11:48 AM Don't "work on" things in hopes of getting a wife. Allow God to work on you to be a better person. The kind of man who deserves my time is the one who is comfortable with himself, respectful of me and others, not clingy or pushy but willing to just be himself... and allow me to be myself as well. Post Reply
View Profile History	What kind of man deserves your time? Posted : 10 Nov, 2010 01:37 PM I can only speak for myself! Girls are very different and want different things! I personally love the assertive type of guys! That likes challenges! But at the same time they are humble enough step back and play the background! I like guys who are in control of their emotions! But can be sensitive enough to hear other people�s hearts and have compassion over them! I like guys who are confident!!!! That�s a big one!!! Confidence!!! Because when they are confident they can be themselves. And as for me the guy has to be Godly!!! Not just say his Christian but have a real personal relationship with God! I want to see fruit of that! p.s You only have to be confident! Girls like that! Find your confidence in God! Then you can be free to be yourself! God has the perfect girl that will fit in to your personality and character! Seriously a perfect fit! Yeah it�s nice to always improve ourselves it sure doest hurt! Real talk!!!!! Post Reply
paschen81 View Profile History	What kind of man deserves your time? Posted : 10 Nov, 2010 07:30 PM Any guy deserves my time up until they do something that hurts me and therefore makes a reason for me to not spend anymore time on them. Post Reply
View Profile History	What kind of man deserves your time? Posted : 13 Nov, 2010 09:38 PM The kind of man that deserves my time is one who asks for it. I want a man that is willing to make time for me, and in return I will make time for him. A man that loves God above all else, and seeks him in his own way. Someone that respects me when I am grumpy, and knows not to bring up conversation until after coffee. A man that treats everyone around him with respect whether they deserve it or not. A tall order sure, but not one that I expect to be completed overnight...nope...but give me ten to twenty years and we'll see:bouncy: Post Reply